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[spike1972]

Did I accept things too easily? (not that I felt I had much choice). Should I have fought a little harder? Would it have made a difference? Did I just confirm the weakness(es) in me that she was already aware of by not fighting?

Comments

[zoefruitcake]

these feelings are natural. try not to dwell, it won't change things x

[spike1972]

Yeah, I know :-s x

[novemberbug]

After my last breakup, I that way too. That I didn't try hard enough to change his mind back. However in the long run, I'm glad I didn't. I grew a lot after he was gone (and not just outwards!) This is "you time", time to mourn what's gone, time to regroup and time to comfort yourself. Surround yourself with friends - they will help you more than you can fathom right now.

*HUGS*

[spike1972]

I know, but it's obviously easier said than done.