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spikes_nibblet

Memeage: 7 Things

Sep 20, 2007 04:21

Yes--OMG she's back again whoa.

*yawn* Back AND exhausted, I might add. Got a migraine yesterday and that's always a severe joyride. Don't ya love it when fifteen bottles of Advil do absolutely NOTHING for a headache designed specifically by Satan himself? 'Cause... wow.

So meme's here 'cause I was tagged by bloodytearslife and she's probably wondering ( Read more... )

james' q&a, read with caution, memeness

Comments 20

darynthe September 20 2007, 14:02:39 UTC

At least James accepts that Spike is still in love with the Buff. It's a good thing too. I think James is dissapointed with the way Spuffy was dealt with. See, he doesn't say Buffy deserves better---which if he felt as he said about the AR would be normal.

spikes_nibblet September 20 2007, 14:52:15 UTC

I didn't really think about it that way--being glad he accepts that Spike is (and always will be) in love with her. I too think he feels Spike was unfairly treated like crap (which he was), Spuffy was badly handled, and I think as someone who's been in a lot of crap relationships himself, he knows that's not really a desirable place to be. But whether or not he believes Spike deserves better, the point is that Spike will never get over Buffy. For better or worse, he loves that girl and would do anything for her. When you're willing to go to the lengths he went for her, it's kind of an "all or nothing" deal.

They came to a very lovely place of trust, closeness and connected more in season 7 than they ever had before and I know James just can't get past the AR thing. Part of me is relieved he has such a problem with it, but part of me wants to tell him to get over it already--the rules have always been a bit blurred/different in the Buffyverse.

*hugs* Thanks for sharing your input, hon. I've missed talking to you!

darynthe September 20 2007, 15:43:09 UTC

I've missed talking with you too! :) I haven't read the LJ in about a month or more, it is almost impossible to try to update now I guess. I have been in relationship that is exactly Buffy/Spike, even with the whole redemption of him from very bad things and a terrible past and even the break up (which happened yesterday). He is also the most handsome man I had ever seen.
And even though, I wouldn't call it crappy relationship. I will always care about him and he will always be my friend. It has been just the most complex thing that has happened to me.

spikes_nibblet September 25 2007, 19:29:29 UTC

Hey, you're starting to get like ME--how cool is that? lol... I've been neglecting LJ myself a lot lately, a shameful fact which I've recently been trying to make up for by just BEING HERE! Think I'm doing moderately well so far, but I'm not holding my breath, 'cause we all know I'm an expert at SUCKING.

And oh the Buffy/Spike relationships, mmmm? I think many and most of us have all had them at some point in our lives. Le oy. So sorry about the break up, sweetie. *hugs* Hope you're doing as okay as you can at this point. If anyone understands a complex relationship like that with someone you really truly care about and will always be your friend, I do. Hang in there. ♥

jamalov29 September 20 2007, 14:30:14 UTC

Oh ,you were the one asking the question!! So it's partly your fault if I've been all sulky since Monday?! ;-)
Kidding !
James's answer didn't please me in the slightest!! I even made a post about it :http://jamalov29.livejournal.com/161107.html#cutid1
Seriously , what was he thinking? ;-)
Well, I love ya like mad, James Darling, but Spuffy Forever, my friend. Spuffy Forever. So put that in your Red Bull and chug it :) What you said. :D

It's been a while since i've been tagged , I will do it . You so made me smile with your mermaid story!Very cute.:)

spikes_nibblet September 20 2007, 15:09:12 UTC

LOL!! I take all blame, really I do! You should have seen the virtual war that was brewing over at Whedonesque when the link to this Q&A was posted--I was practically hunching down in my seat, thinking, "God, what have I started?" :-S

Nothing could have hit me harder than when I was bouncing up and down after seeing my question posted and then feeling my heart break when I read his answer. I felt like such a nitwit, lol. I seriously wanted to yell at him and call him a moron, but I was too bummed.

I'll go check out your LJ after I post this. So sorry the whole thing made you sulky, because it made me sulky, too :-( I think we should go tie him up and make him watch Spuffy videos for 147 days. Hee.

I'm glad you at least enjoyed SOMETHING in this here post. I figured somebody would read that mermaid story and report me to the authorities or just have a nice chuckle over it. Thank you for not reporting me to the authorities!

missus_grace September 20 2007, 15:01:49 UTC

You've given me inspiration now to submit the questions for him that've been rattling around in my brain for months! How cool was it that one of yours was picked! But yeah, my little Spuffy heart was hurt too :(

And yay for being tagged! i'll try to answer as the children allow me to have hands free for typing!

missus_grace September 20 2007, 15:04:13 UTC

PS: I thought putting on the bra in front is the classic default. I always thought hooking it in the back was just something they do in the movies. I can hardly get mine OFF in the back, let alone fasten it!

spikes_nibblet September 20 2007, 16:04:23 UTC

Do you know how much better you made me feel from reading this? LOL!! I'm seriously tempted to take a poll now, because I honestly thought I was some kind of retard or something.

Bless you, girlfriend.

spikes_nibblet September 20 2007, 16:00:23 UTC

Coolness for me and the inspiring! I never inspire anyone, this is great! :D Submit, submit, woman! It feels so good to get stuff off your chest--even if you're not thrilled with the answers, lol. I swear, for about 13 seconds I was flying high when I saw my question there and then I was, like, "James, you IDIOT!" But truthfully I wasn't that surprised. So why'd I spend the day all mopey and eating Hershey bars?

I told jamalov29 that I feel I should offer a public apology to my fellow Spuffies for all the havoc I've wreaked on their hearts. Only seems fair ;)

Woot! I'll look forward to your memey answers when you get a chance to post them.

pixiegirl131415 September 20 2007, 17:01:28 UTC

4, 6, and 7... I knew we were kindred spirits ( ... )

spikes_nibblet September 23 2007, 10:04:01 UTC

I'm constantly amused at all these little things you and I keep finding in common! It's awesome :) Funny how you can think you're totally alone in your ways and if you just share your quirks with your friends, well ( ... )

effulgent_girl September 20 2007, 18:30:05 UTC

I can't put my bra on by clasping it in the back either. And all spiders MUST DIE! I'm going to get one of those noise thingies to drive them away because I think they're invading my room. And that's not good.

You asked the question that hurts all the Spuffies?! Now we have to ask a question that's guaranteed a happy Spuffy answer.

spikes_nibblet September 23 2007, 10:17:48 UTC

FTW!! Another bra geek, lol. This is just getting better and better. And death to all spiders, yes! You know what I do when I can't douse 'em with Raid for whatever reason? Suck 'em up with the vacuum! We have another smaller canister-type portable vac that makes it easier to carry around (larger than a dust buster, it's actually a separate entity that came with our Oreck), and it's got all these nice little attachments that make reaching up on the ceiling and walls very easy--suck up those little assbutts real good! There was one in my room the other night and I went charging downstairs to get my exterminating machine (as my mom calls it) and the little creep actually went all flat on the wall and thought he could avoid being sucked up, but I'm a very patient chick. God, I HATE THOSE THINGS. And why do they gravitate to bedrooms? Why? *shivers ( ... )