Popolo 09.2010
POPOLO 2010.09 - NEWS & LOVE
NEWS LOVE. The whereabouts of a mid-summer love
CRUSH ON YOU -First meeting-
"The thing that gives me a good impression is the polite way to use words and a kind voice" (Ryo)
I want a dramatic, brought by fate encounter. Like a love started from a fallen handkerchief (lol). Things like that don't happen in reality so maybe I will just fall for a girl that makes me think "What a nice girl". If her voice and her way to speak will charm me I think I can fall in love. A girl who has a kind, lovely voice and a polite way of talking is the one that leave me a bigger impression.
"If I fall in love of course I want to chase her, it's natural" (Yamapi)
I'm not the type for love at first sight. You fall in love when you are confortable to talk with somebody, when your way of thinking is similar, it's something that starts when you know somebody well. It's for this that it takes time to aknowledge that it's "love". Of course I'm a man, when I fall in love I want to chase her. If you're really in love this is just natural, right?
JEALOUSY
"I'm a very jealous guy" (Massu)
I'm pretty jealous. Not only in love but with everything. For example, if I'm with another guy and it pops out a dog, if it goes to my friend I'm jealous "Why not me!?" (lol). For this, I want a girlfriend that will forgive me this. I think I'd like to be restrainted smartly, with nice words (lol).
"If the girl I like talks with some other guy more than being jealous I would feel down" (Shige)
I think jealousy is a big thing. If a girl I like, unrequiredly, is good friend with some other guy I wouldn't be jealous but I'd feel so depressed. But from that the contrary spirit of "I won't lose!" can start!
PROPOSE -Confession-
"I wouldn't prepare a scheme like "Ok I'll do it that day". I want that to happen when my feelings will be so overwhelming that I will be able to say it" (Shige)
Maybe if I see that there is a good will towards me I can do it by myself. I think that for a boy the confession must be something to do meeting the person directly. The morning of the date you can think "Maybe today..." and then you need timing. Maybe the ideal is to take her by surprise. That place will become a special place according to what happens, even if you'll be rejected though (lol).
"Maybe if I'm not 100% sure of the success I wouldn't confess" (Massu)
I'd like to confess to the girl I like but I think that I wouldn't be able to do it if I'm not already sure that the girl I like will be fine with it. Like, I'd be too nervous!
LOVE HANGOVER -Happy days-
"I think the difference between "Suki" and "Aishiteru" is in the depth of the feeling" (Koyama)
Saying "Aishiteru" is to accept the other in its entirely. The good and the bad sides too. I think that "Suki" points out only a side of the partner, like the face or the personality. The difference is in the depth. I hate to use them lightly but I think that it's important to express your feeling to the partner when you're happy or when you're having good time.
"I want to spend time together, even without doing anything" (Tegoshi)
The only person with whom you can feel at ease in eachother house is your girlfriend, I think. Just being in the same space, even doing different things, is fine. Being together is the most important thing.
ONE WAY LOVE -Unrequired love-
"If you want to meet her again is a sign that you like that girl" (Tegoshi)
What I expect from love is somebody who can accept me for what I am. When I like somebody I don't want to act cool. That would be a fake me, it doesn't matter if she likes it or not, I want to be my true self. When I think that I like her and that I want to see her, I want to go on positively!
"It's good but also painful. Because you can't be her boyfriend" (Koyama)
When you're in front of that person and you try to act cool or cute for her it's nice. But you're not lovers so when she talks with another guy that unrequired love can become very painful.
LOVE TRIAL -Test of love-
"No matter what problem there is, I'll face it" (Ryo)
If one day my girlfriend starts to go away from me I want to talk about it until I will be satisfied. In a situation of "I want to meet you but I can't" there is nothing else to do but be patient, but I want to do every effort I can to face the problem. If then it's still impossible I can give up. Not only a broken heart, I think time can solve any hard time.
ONE IN A MILLION -To the love of my destiny-
"Even if your heart is broken you don't have to forget. But I'm envious of girl that can replace boyfriends quickly" (Yamapi)
If she dump me...maybe I wouldn't fight against it. Boys can't forget things so easily. The girls are the one who replace boys quickly (lol). I think that love is also a way to become more adult. So I don't want my internal axis to be shaken. To change myself I need many many time to think.