Dear Newo Ikkin, how's Apollo been treating you? Has he been a good boy since the day I left?

[spookie_v]

Still being antisocial around here. Will remedy that soon, but internet is unreliable here, and I probably won't even be able to post this after I write it; we'll see. So, sorry, kind of. Whatever, I'm a bad friend anyway. That's what Maggie thinks of me. You wanna know why? Cos I fucking worry about her and tried to stand up for her, since she

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[fiercesunshine]

*hugs*

I'm fairly certain that does count as some sort of rape, although I'm not certain either. You're a great friend, because great friends are going to do things like that - they will piss their friends off doing what's right, and I sincerely hope she sees that someday and thanks you. While I don't know if I would've hit him (at least not in front of her), I don't blame you for doing it. You've got her best interests at heart, and I know I wish someone would have done that for me.

Take care of yourself, okay? I can't promise anything, and I don't know how long it'll take, but chances are that she'll wise up. Don't beat yourself up, please. D: *hugs again*

[yellowdumpling]

Vincent...you are my hero. I'm not even joking. To stand up for your friend and punch that douchebag rapist in the face was so noble, and I think Maggie owes you an apology bigtime. Just because he didn't physically force her to have sex with him doesn't mean it isn't rape. The fact that he coerced her into doing so by giving her an ultimatum is disgusting. I don't know why she's dating him, but she's only going to end up getting hurt because I've got a feeling that Brad's the type of guy who sleeps around with other girls. I don't think he cares about her at all. You, on the other hand, have been nothing less of a great friend and I don't even think you should be friends with her after that, but that's just my opinion. I'm really proud of you, and you should be proud of yourself for sticking up for your friend and what you believe in.

[yellw_mchinegun]

Hey I found you on handwritten lj. I just wanted to comment that it isn't rape if it was consensual. If anything he's a jerk and she was willing to betray her religion or whatever for a jerk, so she shouldn't be sad. He wasn't worth her time... sucks for her.

[spookie_v]

I know this is old, but I'm somehow just noticing this. Wow, really? Yeah, you're definitely right. If she's coerced into saying, "yes," and, "sure, I guess this is okay because he wants me to say it," then that's totally not rape or wrong. I guess the part about the guy doing his best to make her feel so shitty about not letting him fuck her, that she gave in and let him fuck her, is totally irrelevant.

It's not even about the religion. It's about my best friend being manipulated into having a dick shoved into her when she wasn't even close to being ready. It might not have been him holding her down and violently raping her while she fought to get away, but it's a little fucking more than "sucks for her." Fuck you.

[yellw_mchinegun]

I apologize for that comment. I don't believe that it wasn't rape and that it wasn't coercion and everything you've written here. That comment was posted when I was 19, so I'd be pissed off at myself too if I were someone else.

By the way, did your friend tell you about your old LJ pedo who was looking for you? He messaged me because of this one connection to you (my comment). It worried me that he posted your old pictures on Photobucket and also had little boys under 12 dancing in what looked like leather daddy gear.