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[spoothed]

i defriended a few people, we hadn't talked in a while and i just have too much reading to do for how busy i am right now. sorry, please don't take offense. doubt you would.

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[notatracer]

*am quite surprised one of those people defriended was not me... the quiet reader*

My ex was on several medications (still is, i hope) and it screwed around with his sex drive. So much so that I have first hand experience as to what exactly viagra does.
Well, I'm not sure if it was his drive his medications affected so much as it just made things really really difficult... and for the most part impossible to have "normal" sex. But, even so, he was still quite the porn fiend. Men are strange.
He switched medications and became a randy morning-noon-and night kinda guy. Good times.

When I stopped taking the pill I started getting the worst cramps.

A word on medication

[katerinlhc]

I wouldn't be surprised if it is the medication. My roommate's ex-boyfriend started taking some anti-depressants and it obliterated his sex drive. Don't let a doctor tell you that this is the only kind of medication that Justin can take, cause more than likely its not. Try to get him switched to something a little less friendly to the sex drive because you really can't just not have sex. A healthy sexlife is crucial to any long term relationship, as any random Cosmo and Glamour will tell you :).

Of course, I have to ask, why are you working thirteen hour days? Are you getting overtime for this?

Lara

Re: A word on medication

[spoothed]

no overtime, but i'm salary plus commission plus bonuses. it does me well to work these long ass days (paycheck wise).

[aalexis_unreal]

Glad to hear you got a job that you enjoy. I finally got a job too and I love it... Going to be going to Washington D.C for a week for it so that should be interesting.

Take Care Spoot!

[burntham77]

Sounds like Justin is just going through whatever my dad did. While I wasn't around to see the details, I know that my dad was on meds and that killed his sex drive too. Course, according to mom, my dad never had much of a sex drive anyway.

I can only hope Justin didn't inherit that part of my dad's personality. Granted, things do change when you start living with each other. I imagine if I lived with Yui we wouldn't be getting it every damn day. Maybe every other. Who knows.

Also, I would not imagine my bro would ever cheat. Frankly, that probably comes from a bit of lack of self-confidence. I don't think cheating is in his character.

One issue though: I hope Justin is at least open with his porn. its a healthy part of a person's sexual desire and its even better when a couple can share it.

Glad to see things are looking up.

working hard

[monsieurben]

I suppose this is why you're never online anymore. It's been so weird going to work and having to actually do stuff instead of talk to you. Please get settled in and job-secured so you can slack some.