Jacked from teh_dirty_robot

[sprinks]

The problem with LJ: We all think we are so close, but really we know nothing about each other. So I want you to ask me something you think you should know about me. Something that should be obvious, but you have no idea about. Ask away.

Comments

Answer 1:

[sprinks]

I was about 12-13 or so (ages are hard for me), eighth grade, and I came to realize it based on a conversation I'd had with one of the advisors of the drama club and my best friends crush. The conversation had involved realizing sexuality (don't ask me how we got on the subject, my memory isn't that good), and my best friends crush because we'd had a class together and she'd asked me to spy on him for her, but everytime we were close (physically, that and he was one of the few people who were nice to me at the time...), I'd get this weird feeling. Eventually I put two and two together, it just took me a week or so.

[smacksaw]

What's better, pitching or catching?

Not what you prefer...like top/bottom stuff. What's the better role?

A2:

[sprinks]

It's all highly subjective. It takes a real amount of "trust" and desire for someone in order to bottom for them, very much like it does for women, but it really all depends on what's right for you. So I guess for this, I'd have to say bottoming; there's more of a connection between you and the other person.
FYI: I've actually done both, something about bottoming just really didn't do it for me though, like bending my soul in directions it shouldn't be going.

Re: A2:

[smacksaw]

Good answer.

Haha...

[hewhofightsself]

Dude, I don't even know what kind of car you drive.

Now THAT is SAD.

A3:

[sprinks]

Not too sad, I only got it ~6 months ago.
'97 For Escort, white, ghetto-fied thanks to an accident involving a parked flat-bed w/ flashing lights, a narrow street, and me rushing to the hospital for the birth of my nephew.

Re: A3:

[hewhofightsself]

Ghettofied is the way to go.

Now, assuming the transpirance of some odd set of hypothetical circumstances that made it so, I wouldn't have to curl up in a ball in the back seat to be driven by you through my part of Oceanside now that your car has been flatbedghettofied. (wow, what a word...)

[magicalcrap]

is it a fear of commitment that keeps you bed-hopping, or something in your past that hurt you to the point of perpetuating relationship fear?

A4:

[sprinks]

How is that supposed to be something that you should know but don't...?
Nevermind, I bring that up because honestly, I don't know. I'm pretty sure its fear of commitment, considering even with my longest relationship (10mo), I cheated on him. Although I did stay monogamous during the runner-up relationship (6mo), so it might've been breaking that off that was just really painful...?
I do realize that settling down will require therapy/soul-searching, either that, or a very expressive relationship.

Re: A4:

[magicalcrap]

I wasn't trying to be upsetting or insulting. It's the one point in your life that makes me worried about you, and as MommaCat, it's my job to understand my kids. =P whether you like it or not. now eat your veggies. I understand though, I'm in the middle of one of the most open and honest relationships I've ever been in. And it seems to be the only one that has ever felt right. I love my dennis.

Re: A4:

[sprinks]

It wasn't either, the question just kinda threw me. And I know you're just looking out for me :-D

[think_angry]

i know alomst everything about you except for one thing that somehow managed to never come up in conversation: what is your favourite colour? (no this is not a monty python reference.)

A5:

[sprinks]

Blue... i mean, Yell- AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
Just kidding, honestly, same answer Mellzah gave: dark reds: maroon, crimson, scarlet, etc. I wear black simply because I like the way it looks and it goes well with red. Hunter Green comes in close second, and usually worn with dark browns (usually chocolate). Different shades of gray (slate and charcol namely) come in third.

Re: A5:

[think_angry]

you wear chocolate? what do you do when it starts melting?... no wait... im getting a visual...*shudder*

Re: A5:

[sprinks]

I have hot boys from the clubs lick it alllllll off, what else? Tee-hee!

I'm so horrid... Forgive that, I just got back from a really hot night at TigerHeat in Hollywood (yes, I do have to drive that far for clubs here... silence lucky bastard).