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Alright so a lot has happened since I have last posted. I will give you a cut just in case it is too long!
So the last time people talked to me or anything I was still dating Brewer in San Fran (just in case you forgot). Her and I were having some difficulties with our dating situation. She started dating someone there and could not handle dating 2 people. I was totally fine with it cause I knew I could not be there with her. So I thought she was going to stop seeing me just cause I lived so far away and she was going to keep dating the other girl. (She did not want a relationship at all so her doing this was a little crazy for me, in that is hurt cause i get screwed because of distance) I told her that if she liked the other girl more than me that I would back down and just be friends. She told me that that was the problem she liked us both the same and for totally different reasons. So anywho, I went out there because I had gotten my plane ticket before problems arised. I really was nervous about the trip, about how she would act towards me, if i would leave there w/o her in my life. I get there and it was a little akward at first cause I did not know what to do because previously we were extremely affectionate with each other and would not know if we would be the same as before and what not. Well anyway we have a great weekend (sans-sex). I was upset at first about the no sex part but she explained why she did not want to have sex. I am still a little confused about why but it sorta makes sense. So we can to the conclusion that she is not going to date anyone because she does not need a relationship and she dates too intensely. So the moral of this story is her and I are great friends. We still talk everyday. I could not imagine my life without her. She is a great person and a great friend. I still plan on visiting her and she plans on visiting me (whenever we have the time and money). So that is the story of Brewer and I.
So now I have learned that things happen for a reason. Brewer and I wasn't going to happen and as a result of that I go out and try to date and meet new people. Even though Brewer and I were allowed to date other people, I didn't just cause I didn't. So I am on Butch-Femme Matchmaker looking around at profiles, you know. I am an online dating geek. I cannot meet people without a computer. That is how I met everyone on LJ. I have social issuses. So anyway, I am on my little site and I click on this one profile: SportyGWF. I go and check out her photos. She is a cutie-patootie. I message her and tell her (i believe this happened on Wednesday of last week). All I wanted to do was to say "hey you are cute" and you know what, I am driving to Valdosta to meet her half way on Saturday night. Yeah so we talked from Wednesday until I left Saturday night to meet her. So we got a hotel there. Hehehe how funny. Anywho I beat her there. She gets there around 1ish. We talk for a little bit and then go to bed. We snuggle and then you know what happens then (if you are smart). So then the next day we head down to Jacksonville FL to go meet one of her friends and we hang out there for the day. I have to say I felt so comfortable around her so fast. It was quite suprising. She was very nice, very cute, and very chivalrous. She opened all the doors for me, you know the usually stuff I love. BUT the sweetest thing she did was but me a kite. I had been looking for a kite forever. Noone here sells them (i even went to IFO in little 5 and they were out.) That was totally awesome. We were all cute and flirty the whole day just like we had been dating for a long time. No akwardness at all. Very surprising. Very refreshing. Yeah so I head back home to reality. We have been talking a lot. Getting to know each other better. Today, she sent me flowers to work. She really knows how to charm a girl! :)
So that is how things have been with me. Sorry that I do not update as much as I should. I do not have that much of a great life. Pretty boring. Only time anything exciting happens in my life it usually involves the people who read this journal so I do not feel the need to post it. SO anywho, OH yeah I got a promotion at work. I will be assistant manager at the N. Point location! WOOT!