You can only use the 'my parents made me this way' excuse for so long. And then you have to, or are forced to, take the responsibility for your own life. It is easier to blame this on your parents, and you should. You are still young and have that ability. In a few years, you will realize that your life is your own doing. You make it the way you want it. And then you will smile, because you will realize everything. You make the good and the bad, the stress and the vacations. You have this life, good or bad. And no one will ever be able to take that from you. Of course, you wont do that for a while. It took me 7 years. BUT I put aside the blame. I learned that it really doesnt matter whose fault this is or that is. And I am happy. And you will be to. So much energy is kept inside for the unhappy part, that seems to stress over little things like this. And when you just let go of it, you will be free to make your life your own.
Ive let go of alot from the past and with time ill get over this too which i have this certian situation is already done and over with it just kind of hurt at the time. i dont like to hold grudges i think that its point less life is to short. so there for i dont i live life one day at a time and take things as they come to me i may not always do the right thing but who does. im learning people learning something new everyday. its just an experiance an opstical that i had to go threw. i apprechiate the advice.
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