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squeakywheel

One Big Update

Aug 31, 2009 15:43

Everything has been up and down, up and down. London was amazing (although up and down, up and down). I loved the tiny bit of the city that I saw but hardly saw anything at all. It was also great to see Kev, but the most valuable time was probably that which I spent alone ( Read more... )

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sierranichole August 31 2009, 16:11:22 UTC

Good for you for having a good time in London, Kate! I'm happy for you for that ( ... )

squeakywheel August 31 2009, 16:18:07 UTC

Not pretentious at all! It is much appreciated. Thank you (and I just resent you a friend request on Facebook because I am an idiot). :)

letmeburyem August 31 2009, 19:05:15 UTC

Kate, I was so happy to read this entry: you have made so much progress! I second the idea of making a clean break with Chris- he has given you a heaping example of how incapable he is of maintaining an adult relationship with you...or anyone.

Don't ever forget how much you are worth. Write it down and stick it in your wallet if you need to. Now, you have the opportunity to create exactly the life you want. How awesome is that?

Way to go Kate:-)

prophetess666 August 31 2009, 19:50:59 UTC

Before I read this entry, I was totally going to tell you I think you need to cut him off. So I'm really glad that you have.

I know it's hard, believe me. I think you're in a place with Chris that I was in before I left Mike, I just had the luxury of figuring it all out while I was still with him and making it into a solid decision that I was happy with.

I really do think that this is the best thing for you, and once you're removed enough from it, you'll really start to see how much better off you are. You'll be happier without the constant talking down, or wondering how you could be better/what you could do to make him happy.

*hugs*