Catching Up

[squeakywheel]

Friday night, I met Jan, Sophia, Lindsey, Caroline, and Jirka for Mexican dinner. The food was worse than I remember but I had a lot of fun. They were having a 50% off special so we ordered a lot, including an entire page of desserts. That may have something to do with my lack of weight loss this week, or perhaps it’s the full English breakfast

Comments

[prophetess666]

So you don't have to answer this if you don't want to, but I am quite curious as to why Chris issued that ultimatum. Did you guys have a conversation that made him feel like he has to either have all or nothing? It's just a really confusing thing, at least to me on the outside

[squeakywheel]

I don't mind explaining the ultimatum--it's kind of part of his deranged view of women and relationships and something he learned from pickup.

He thinks he needs to see me (and sleep with me) ASAP or else he's just "orbiting." He doesn't want to be my friend; he wants to be my boyfriend. And if he doesn't force me to see him, then he's going to end up just orbiting me as a friend. I'll just keep leading him on. And he doesn't want to be my friend because he's too attracted to me...something like this.