No, you shouldn't lock everything, you should find this person and beat them for being an asshole. Yeah, I know things about people I haven't met that often in person. But I don't exactly say to them "So, how's the whole polyamory thing going?" or "So your mom's a total fucking bitch!", because they might want to talk about that stuff, but I don't know them well enough to broach the subject.
Now if THEY broach the subject, I can say "Yeah, I saw that on your journal", and let them talk about it, because no LJ entry captures the whole story. BUT, it's their life.
You should have seen the furious backpedaling when I wrote back and said that on second thought we should not get together because I was totally creeped out. Apparently this person thinks I misinterpreted them. Yeah, I can't misinterpret you not having any common sense.
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Now if THEY broach the subject, I can say "Yeah, I saw that on your journal", and let them talk about it, because no LJ entry captures the whole story. BUT, it's their life.
There's such a thing as manners. Yeesh!
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