Comments | ss_interject: A shitty childhood isn't an excuse to be an asshole

ss_interject

A shitty childhood isn't an excuse to be an asshole - It's a reason not to be.

Oct 22, 2013 23:27

It frustrates the hell out of me when people act like an asshole and use the fact a crappy childhood is their self-entitled right to be one. It's even worse if they're caught doing something that is completely fucked up and then try and use it as a defence.... It isn't about how bad they had it, it's about whether right now - do they grasp the ( Read more... )

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ss_interject October 23 2013, 03:48:37 UTC

It constantly amazes me what seems to justify why someone isn't really at fault. Just like the moment saying something that is personally offensive to someone when someone says "I'm just being honest" lol

Lol I think it's entirely possible though that it's me who is insane and others look at me with the exact same amazement... :p

opiferum October 22 2013, 19:57:21 UTC

I really love the subject heading... so true it's hard to believe why people can't realise it for themselves, but unfortunately, it happens that people feel the need to repeat behaviour because apparently, some humans unfortunately learn how to treat others based on their childhood.

I'm glad you don't wish to have lived a different life, either. I feel exactly the same way, even though there are some people that are clueless why I feel like that. There is no point in explaining to those people though!!

ss_interject October 23 2013, 05:08:50 UTC

Thank you!!! :)

I hear ya about not understanding why someone wouldn't change their past- I guess understanding that not that we would want to go through some things, but having gone through them, other things seem trivial and easy to deal with.. Perspective can't be shared though.

lol if everyone just stopped and looked at what people do - it's pretty crazy. People need to believe that they're a good person who made a few mistakes. But if you can explain how it wasn't really your fault then it's ok.. The worlds problems are easily fixed, everyone else just needs to change haha

opiferum October 23 2013, 05:29:40 UTC

Of course!

I'm just grateful there are people like you that can see the difference between living in blame, and living without blame. It's very refreshing, and it makes me feel less alone. It's people like you that can make a difference by leading by example, and I applaud and respect you for the fact you can live to be the difference that the world needs.

ss_interject January 17 2014, 12:36:08 UTC

And a lesbian