yeah, I know what you mean. I remember the 1st time I felt like that with Don... well, there were many 1st times actually because we'd go back to seeing eachother everyday after a while and I'd completely forget he wanted some alone time before, so when it happened again it felt brand new. I know it's not the same cause you guys are married and never had the problems Don and I do. But in my opinion he just feels crowded and it would be good to let him. But if he knows it's not going over well (which its clearly not), then it might be better for him to give in on this one. And maybe that way you still know you come first and maybe don't have to see him the at all one day the next time this happens. Well, I guess it would be good advice for me atleast, and this it what I would have Don do. I don't know about you and James of course. :)
haha ironically, he said he that I could go, and I was going to go, and then I was EXTERMLY tired that night, and I stayed home and it turned out being fine, and he came home and he decided he'd like me to come sometimes bcuz he thinks it would be fun and I decieded I enjoyed having the house to my self so it worked it's self out, James and I have a way of doing that lol!! he had a good time I had fun home and we were both very happy!! but thanks for the advice Im glad Im not the only one that feels like that
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But in my opinion he just feels crowded and it would be good to let him. But if he knows it's not going over well (which its clearly not), then it might be better for him to give in on this one. And maybe that way you still know you come first and maybe don't have to see him the at all one day the next time this happens.
Well, I guess it would be good advice for me atleast, and this it what I would have Don do. I don't know about you and James of course.
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