I have 1 issue with that. As part of a relationship, you cannot spend every waking minute with each other. You need your space and in all honesty school and friends come before a relationship. Without your friends, you are nothing and have no crutch for support when things go sour.
By you saying that, you make yourself out to seem clingy and demanding (no offense) and that drives a lot of guys away. Normal guys hate drama and high maintenance girls.
Again, no offense. I understand about the quality time but there should be somethin like a 50/50 or 60/40 split. You can't expect someone to basically eliminate their friends just to be with you.
Please don't take this the wrong way and get defensive about it. I'm not attacking you or anything. I'm just stating an opinion and am not trying to offend you in any way shape or form. If I do/did I apologize in advance because that is not what my intentions are.
I have no idea what you're talking about. was it this: ??
"-He spends more quality time with me that any one of his friends."
Because i mean any "one" friend. not all of his friends, combined. Tyler had "guy's nights". PLENTY of them, trust me. He spent more time with one friend than he did with me, and that wasn't fair. I'm all about him having friends, If he doesn't then that's creepy. But when he hangs out with him every single night, and spends way more quality time with him than me, then that's not okay. Especially if they're oogling other women together.
So please read carefully before you criticize. thanks.
no no, def not enemies. By saying "if that's what you want to call things" I was referring to the lack of a friendship that we have. Hard to say anything more than us just being 2 people who share a common interest.
Don't get me wrong, this totally sucks and I think you should come to NY so we can fix that cuz I think we could be totally awesome friends and the bestest of buds or whatever you want to call it.
Cuz u get hurricanes and all them other shits. NY is cooler than Arkansas in more ways than 1 (including temps yo!) but I'm afraid there are hicks and inbreds in Arkansas and I'm afraid they'll eat me. I don't want to have to bust out my NY Ninja skills on them. I wouldn't want to scare you off cuz they're such powerful and frightening moves that anyone whose not from NY, would wet themselves and run away while being scarred for life.
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By you saying that, you make yourself out to seem clingy and demanding (no offense) and that drives a lot of guys away. Normal guys hate drama and high maintenance girls.
Again, no offense. I understand about the quality time but there should be somethin like a 50/50 or 60/40 split. You can't expect someone to basically eliminate their friends just to be with you.
Please don't take this the wrong way and get defensive about it. I'm not attacking you or anything. I'm just stating an opinion and am not trying to offend you in any way shape or form. If I do/did I apologize in advance because that is not what my intentions are.
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"-He spends more quality time with me that any one of his friends."
Because i mean any "one" friend. not all of his friends, combined. Tyler had "guy's nights". PLENTY of them, trust me. He spent more time with one friend than he did with me, and that wasn't fair. I'm all about him having friends, If he doesn't then that's creepy. But when he hangs out with him every single night, and spends way more quality time with him than me, then that's not okay. Especially if they're oogling other women together.
So please read carefully before you criticize. thanks.
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I agree with your response above. The ooging other women together is not cool and uncalled for.
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Don't get me wrong, this totally sucks and I think you should come to NY so we can fix that cuz I think we could be totally awesome friends and the bestest of buds or whatever you want to call it.
Let me paraphrase for you:
FIX, FRIENDS, NY, WAKEBOARDING, NOW!
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be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it.
even if you're still trying to dump old baggage down the potty.
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