3 monthes
its been 7 months since we fought and said divorce, 4 months since we finalized a divorce we both didn't want and 3 months since he met her, They've been together 3 months and they are now living together.. With my kids.. In the house I helped build. The furniture... all of the things I helped build.. She lives with my kids now. Sleeps in the bed I
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That seems so quick to move on, especially to move someone into the house you put together, with your kids:(
That sucks:(
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But you are a strong woman. He already needs someone to help him forget you because he can't do it on his own. Pathetic.
Try spending more time with your kids, take them out of that house and do cheesy mom things. And talk with your friends. I'm not any good at getting those images out of my head either, but I do know that you can't keep them in your head! If you're feeling down, call someone and either cry your heart out or get them to distract you.
Also - and this helps me - be cognizant of what you're thinking/daydreaming about. When you find yourself thinking about it, immediately stop yourself and think of something different. Something on the opposite end of the spectrum, like insanely happy, like riding a roller coaster or some shit. I would still end up crying sometimes, but it helps and you get better at it the more you do it.
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