Oh, she sounds really great. Is there a chance to see her again? Soon?
And there's nothing wrong in being attracted to some beauty first and get to now the other things (personality, sense of humour...) peu à peu. Even if most people deny it, imo we are all like this (attracted to some beauty first). Though one can fall for a gorgeous mind or other things without the beauty as well- it just might take more time.
If you gonne see her again, talk to her. Invite her for a cup of coffee/tea (I don't get these dating rules you have in the US, but it wouldn't count as a date, would it?). I'm drinking coffee with friends all the time and just assume you are too. That would give you the opportunity to pick up some vibes (though I must say, I would call stroking your nails as a hint). I (as in being a straight woman) would have pointed at your nails and said I love the colour scheme. :)
I'm babbling around but think you should take heart. :D
Thank you! I hope I see her again but both times we've met so far, it's been when she's shown up at an event where I'm working, and I don't know much about her so I don't know how to track her down :( But if I see her again I'm going to definitely try to find a way to ask her to coffee or something. I am the worst at dating things. I have no idea how to approach people and never think of things until way after the fact but hopefully since I've put this much thought into it ahead of time, I'll be more ready next time lol
That's good to know though that as a straight woman you wouldn't touch another woman's hand regarding the nails! It helps give another clue :)
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And there's nothing wrong in being attracted to some beauty first and get to now the other things (personality, sense of humour...) peu à peu. Even if most people deny it, imo we are all like this (attracted to some beauty first). Though one can fall for a gorgeous mind or other things without the beauty as well- it just might take more time.
If you gonne see her again, talk to her. Invite her for a cup of coffee/tea (I don't get these dating rules you have in the US, but it wouldn't count as a date, would it?). I'm drinking coffee with friends all the time and just assume you are too. That would give you the opportunity to pick up some vibes (though I must say, I would call stroking your nails as a hint). I (as in being a straight woman) would have pointed at your nails and said I love the colour scheme. :)
I'm babbling around but think you should take heart. :D
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That's good to know though that as a straight woman you wouldn't touch another woman's hand regarding the nails! It helps give another clue :)
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Good luck! :D
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