i may have finally discovered the answer to the question of why i've been single for three and a half years. besides the fact that i go for the wrong guys sometimes
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I agree with the girl who posted above me. I'm confident, been called intimidating, but always seem to have some fellow who is "up for the challenge." The relationships never really worked, though, because i felt like I was the boy's mother. My relationship now, though seemingly rare, is what I think would benefit you. He is extremely independent, and doesn't tolerate stupid fights, complaining, or weakness. While I am not prone to those things, it makes me want to empower myself even more. The trick is to find the type of guy who isn't looking to cradle you in his arms unless you're watching a movie on the couch together:)
In terms of the kids thing, I thought I didn't want kids...then I met a man who made those motherly instincts kick in to WANT them. I blame that on the fact that he is the first man I have dated who thinks for himself, and doesn't need me to change his diaper. So I embrace my new want!
I think we absolutely can. It may take a little longer than us impatient young people hope it to. It takes meeting a lot of people. It takes being sure of ourselves, and confident, and searching without expecting. And without getting discouraged. I think you will find the happiness you desire, with someone who loves you Because you are strong and independant! And anyone else, isn't worth being with, especially if they try to put you into a submissive place in the relationship dynamic.
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I'm confident, been called intimidating,
but always seem to have some fellow who is "up for the challenge." The relationships never really worked, though, because i felt like I was the boy's mother. My relationship now, though seemingly rare, is what I think would benefit you. He is extremely independent, and doesn't tolerate stupid fights, complaining, or weakness. While I am not prone to those things, it makes me want to empower myself even more. The trick is to find the type of guy who isn't looking to cradle you in his arms unless you're watching a movie on the couch together:)
In terms of the kids thing, I thought I didn't want kids...then I met a man who made those motherly instincts kick in to WANT them. I blame that on the fact that he is the first man I have dated who thinks for himself, and doesn't need me to change his diaper. So I embrace my new want!
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I think we absolutely can. It may take a little longer than us impatient young people hope it to. It takes meeting a lot of people. It takes being sure of ourselves, and confident, and searching without expecting. And without getting discouraged.
I think you will find the happiness you desire, with someone who loves you Because you are strong and independant! And anyone else, isn't worth being with, especially if they try to put you into a submissive place in the relationship dynamic.
Me personally, I'm a total switch. :3
~B
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