Wandered over here from threetails' LJ; saw one of your comments and liked your kitty pic. ^^;
Please consider avoiding the numbing lotions/lubes. The pain response is there for a reason, and ignoring or suppressing it can cause great harm. I know two different guys that got anal fissures, one required surgery, from using these products. Anal sex usually has a mild-to-moderate amount of discomfort involved for most people, but if it hurts, something is wrong and it is time to stop.
Agree with taking it slow, and lots and lots of foreplay to get you in the mood. Body massage, working down my back, to my legs, and back up to my ass... before long I'll be begging for it!
Thanks for the advice. I'll have to give it a try. my biggest problem is I'm not usually able to get real into anal, and usually do it mainly to make the other person happy, so even with lots of foreplay, the apprehension of the pain from anal keeps me from relaxing enough to loosen up.
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Please consider avoiding the numbing lotions/lubes. The pain response is there for a reason, and ignoring or suppressing it can cause great harm. I know two different guys that got anal fissures, one required surgery, from using these products. Anal sex usually has a mild-to-moderate amount of discomfort involved for most people, but if it hurts, something is wrong and it is time to stop.
Agree with taking it slow, and lots and lots of foreplay to get you in the mood. Body massage, working down my back, to my legs, and back up to my ass... before long I'll be begging for it!
Have fun!
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And thanks for the comment about my icon. :3
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