Have your parents actually threatened this, or are we dealing with hypotheticals? Does this apply to moving out in general or just moving in with Raechel and her boyfriend? If it's just that one case, could you get an appartment with someone else to keep them somewhat happy? Why are they so opposed to you moving out?
In answer to your question, I would try to find a way to keep them from disowning me, but if they were being completely unreasonable and there was no way I could move out and no have them disown me, I'd do it anyway, probably, provided I was financially stable enough to not need their help at all. It would really suck to move out and be disowned and then end up homeless, or something like that.
They have actually threatened this, it's not hypothetical. It doesn't really matter who I move in with; if I move in with anyone, rather than moving home, then say they will "cut off all support."
My parents have threatened to kick me out before if particular things kept happening (e.g. I kept buying tarot decks), and my response was to say 'okay' to their faces and then lie lie lie. I realize that's not really a feasible situation for you.
If you do decide to move out, and they actually do follow through on their threat, let me know if there's any way I can help~
I took the lying route in highschool, and now it's coming back to bite me in the ass because it's that much more stuff I have to keep hidden from them on top of all the current stuff.
Concerning the poll: I pretty much agree with what Moriah said.
Concerning being loony on gp: I am so impressed that you can stand GP at this point. I've tried going back on there and ripping the poetry to shreds (it calls to me...) but I just can't deal with that response waiting thing. How annoying! I want to know what everyone has said, but if I wait, the topic will be backlogged or whatever... in the eternity of 12 year old angst that is: le gp.
anyway, maybe the great DreamingPoet will make a vicious comeback. Maybe I'll see you there ^_^
I approve of this potential comeback, and if you want to rip good (or at least better) poetry to shreds, a couple of us set up an lj community: sweet16poetry. It's moderated membership (by me) so it isn't overrun by whiny 12 year olds. I think there are only like 6 or 8 people posting in it, actually ^^;;
That really wasn't intended to be a shameless plug I promise~
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Does this apply to moving out in general or just moving in with Raechel and her boyfriend? If it's just that one case, could you get an appartment with someone else to keep them somewhat happy?
Why are they so opposed to you moving out?
In answer to your question, I would try to find a way to keep them from disowning me, but if they were being completely unreasonable and there was no way I could move out and no have them disown me, I'd do it anyway, probably, provided I was financially stable enough to not need their help at all.
It would really suck to move out and be disowned and then end up homeless, or something like that.
Sorry for the long post.
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If you do decide to move out, and they actually do follow through on their threat, let me know if there's any way I can help~
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Concerning being loony on gp: I am so impressed that you can stand GP at this point. I've tried going back on there and ripping the poetry to shreds (it calls to me...) but I just can't deal with that response waiting thing. How annoying! I want to know what everyone has said, but if I wait, the topic will be backlogged or whatever... in the eternity of 12 year old angst that is: le gp.
anyway, maybe the great DreamingPoet will make a vicious comeback. Maybe I'll see you there ^_^
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That really wasn't intended to be a shameless plug I promise~
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