no, i just don't lock posts because i'm usually not paranoid about stuff that's going on with me, and my entries aren't personal enough to need locking. i don't want to make bwe again, and i don't see that this post would make it.
the thing is, if i'd wanted the fact that i'm with hannah get into bwe, i'd have made a big post about it, and you know what, i didn't, and only people who are close to me know what's going on, which is why i'm pissed off, because only a friend could have gone to them with that info, right? and as far as locking posts, i normally have no problem with people reading my posts, which is why i leave them all unlocked, and i didn't see that something like this would be an issue. if it's such an issue, maybe i will get paranoid and start locking everything.
....melodramatic much? I'm so sick and tired of people taking issue with what's said in that community. get over it. somebody on your f'list probably just commented with something which would make a decent post. personally i didn't find a single thing they said about offensive in the slightest.
this has happened to me before, i was linked to a pussycat doll with her post being linked, and sure that was funny. normally i have no problems with that community. i just don't like someone insinuating i'm having gay affairs on someone i really care about very early on in the relationship.
blatant homosexually charged friendships......... maybe i am being too sensitive, but i just want to be scrutinised this early on into something which could be potentially so great. i have no problem with being made fun of, and i'm sick of explaining myself that the person that i'm pissed off in the first place was the person who took this to bwe in the first place.
next time... if you're really hating the attention- don't try to get more.petewentzMarch 21 2006, 17:55:04 UTC
speaking as someone that has been in waaay too many dramatic internet situations and mbp_bwe issues (apparently the real bwe blog too as i found last night, damn it) i know how you feel and it's annoying to have your life put in bwe and mocked by a bunch of people that do not even know you but that's all part of being a "celebrity"- you just have to laugh it off to friends and not post like this, cause it really does look like you are trying to get attention. if it bugged you and you weren't trying to make a deal of it, this post would be locked or this post would not exist.
also, i don't really understand the sucking up to the mods part of it- considering they came up with that headline you hate and decided to use your entry in one of their issues- and sucking up to the people in chat that commented on it? you are getting mad at your friends list- which should consist of friends. that kinda makes no sense
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rereading this it seems as if it was written for a lot of people to see, not just his friends list. he wrote it knowing bwe and people from the chat would see it. he's like trying to get in their good graces.
Steve if I were you I would be more insulted I was mentioned in an issue where there days there was no news at all. It was like scraping the bottom of the barrel or something. I mean even I wasn't in this issue and I am in just about every issue of BWE.
i'm not fussed about making bwe. yeah, i'm going to be laughing about it in a while. i've said this a million times now that it's the fact that something like that was taken to bwe in the first place.
My personal feeling is that if people are talking it's good. When they stop talking it's bad. So just chill and hope for a good enough blurb that will draw new people to your journal.
i don't usually interact with the community on the whole though. i'm doing well enough here in the uk to be considered a celebrity, but i am totally aware of the fact that a lot of people round here have no idea who i am. i don't want to be that guy that no-one knows trying to make drama.
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also, i don't really understand the sucking up to the mods part of it- considering they came up with that headline you hate and decided to use your entry in one of their issues- and sucking up to the people in chat that commented on it? you are getting mad at your friends list- which should consist of friends. that kinda makes no sense ( ... )
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