I have to rant.

[stevmonkey]

Ok, I know that I do not post here very often. Actually, I never post here any more. But tonight I feel that I must post. I have something on my mind that is really pissing me off. Now, you all know my beliefs on marriage and such. I have personally claimed that I will never get married, and never have kids. Despite these wield beliefs, I truly

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[queen_penguin]

i'm sending a huge, gargantuan, monstrous, King Kong edition hug your way.

I'm sorry you feel this way. I, too, don't particularly want to get married and I especially never want to have children, although with different reasons than your own. Perhaps you are looking too hard. Maybe there is something within yourself that you want or need to change before you can be happy with someone else. Only after you are completely happy with yourself can you be completely happy with another. Or maybe you just need a change. Moving, for me, has opened up my eyes and mind and soul to many things. Or maybe i'm way off base here. Either way, I wish you the best of luck in every aspect of life. Don't give up. Just don't make looking for Ms. Right the most important thing in your life. Everything will fall into place in its own time and just as it should. That's my view anyway.

Besides, you can always have the knowledge that so many of your friends care about you and love you. Miss you, m'dear.

[buttaphlies]

Steven

[thismonkysnutz]

I think it's funny that all the girls that have commented are telling you to hold on or wait for it or it will come. But noone knows that, the fact is that no one knows anything. You could be head over heals in love and it fall apart in your face the next day. Or you could give your love to the wrong person unknowingly and it deteriorate so slowly that you really don't notice until your heart is an aching hole of nonexistense and you never realized. Or you someone could catch your eye one day, then you see them at a bar with a friend the next week, and BAM! your in love, walking the aisle, wearing the scrubs in the delivery room trying not to pass out, holding your baby boy while he trys to master his first steps. Promises of love are empty. You don't know what's out there for you, and no one else does either. But the important thing is not to fret about it......why you say? Because however your life ends up, that's the way it was meant to be. There's no point in wondering now where you will be in 10 or 20 years. Making

[acceptableloss]

Well since it seems you are headed down this road anyway, you should go ahead and choose your crazy old man animal. Preferably (sp?) something really unique and odd like a sugar glider or spider monkey or something. The reason I say this is that if you're going to be an eccentric single old guy some day, you have to have a house full of pets to replace all the annoying people that most of us have in our lives. If it were me I would choose ferrets or maybe some sort of tropical frog. I would have dozens of them all over my house. (Which should incidentally be at least three bedrooms, one for you and the rest for the animals.) The kids in my neighborhood would refer to me as "the crazy ferret guy" or something like that. Weird pets make great replacements for people. People are generally ignorant and annoying. However, animals cannot talk and will therefore be less likely to distract you from your poetry and song writing. Also if you have a house full of ferrets people will tend to steer clear because they smell.

I hope this