... Doing what needs to be done ...

[stgabriel]

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So, I am starting to do more things that need to be done. The major thing that I am doing is slowly removing any way of me seeing what is going on her life. She asked for this divorce/seperation and I do not need to be tempted or dwell on things.

So, I took her off of FB and I will be doing the same for LJ and MS as well.

I do still love her, it's

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[krazyirish]

Agreed.

[stgabriel]

Thank you, sir.

[stgabriel]

You ... are a rat bastage!

[ashi_kun]

that would definitely be for the best. Separating your new life from your old will take time but the constant reminders is almost as bad as if you were to take a blade to your skin repetitively. Do what you think is best and know that you have several friends and loved ones to support you. Blessed Be Anthony
<3 Ashley

[stgabriel]

Blessed Be, ash. I just want to heal. And I do not think I can when I am constantly reminded.

[tiggrr2001]

I agree! When Allen & I split up, right before I met you, the best/easiest thing for me was to get everything packed up or thrown out. I gave all his stuff back and just didn't even want to deal with him. I blocked him on all my online messengers and asked him not to show up at my job. Eventually, I moved on and started talking to him again. That's when I realized I made the right choice about it all. You need to do what is right for you. If that means making choices like these, then absolutely do so! You are loved by many and nobody that really cares for you will ever tell you that what you are doing is wrong. =)

[stgabriel]

Thank you, love.

Softest of kisses to you.

[postconditional]

I'm sorry to hear that. I'd like to believe that if it came down to that then it was for the best.

[stgabriel]

Thank you, Rob. You know me. It takes a lot for me to do this.