That's a wrap

[stgulik]

The drunk driver who injured my brother and SIL and killed my mother in 2020 was sentenced yesterday to 22 years. He had prior convictions, plus he had been driving with his two kids in the car. These factors increased the number of charges and years to be served.

Though it was not as long a sentence as my family and the district attorney had

Comments

[teddyradiator]

I'm glad that there is closure. It angers me that people are so arrogant and stupid that they think they can drive when so obviously impaired, especially with children. And they seem to feel no shame or remorse.

Your dinner party sounds beautiful. A sweet tribute. I'm sending you love and hugs, and hope that the coming days are kinder.

[stgulik]

Thank you sweetie. As it happens, this driver exhibited some shame, and did us a favor - he pleaded guilty so there wouldn't have to be a trial. It benefitted his time served, but it surely made our lives easier as well.

[squibstress]

I'm so glad you finally have some closure and that the killer will be off the streets for a long (but not long enough) time. I hope it gives you some measure of peace.

And what a lovely way to celebrate your mother's life.

Hugs and best wishes to you and your family.

[stgulik]

Closure is the operative word. I feel a great weight lifted, and I hope the rest of the family does too. Thank you!

[beffeysue]

I'm grateful that you can now have quiet time to come to terms. Losing family or loved ones has always made me feel a bit emotionally numb. I could function, be helpful, get things done, but when I lost my husband it was at least six months on before I really dealt with the heavy sadness and began to feel better. I can't imagine how horrid it would be to have been what you have. I'm glad that at least the court case has been settled and hope you can begin to live a that is not filled with all the reminders that go along with trials and convictions. 💖

[stgulik]

My heart goes out to you, Beffeysue. Grief has to run its course in its own way and time, doesn't it?

[nocturnus33]

What a nice way to remember your mum; I'm glad you were able to achieve justice.

[stgulik]

The rest of the weekend I spent on as many sentimental activities as I wanted. Now I'm ready to live in the moment.