Video 02

[stillneedsakiss]

[This message has deliberately been left unfiltered even from the one who has necessitated this question in the first place.]

This might be a strange question to pose, but I'd like to know...

How much of age gap would you find acceptable between two people who want to date?

General question.

Comments

[nie_unschuldig]

It all depends, does your brother know?

[stillneedsakiss]

Well, he does now...

[nie_unschuldig]

If he's all right with it, there shouldn't be a problem. Unless, the gentleman in question has an issue?

[stillneedsakiss]

...I don't know if he does. I sort of hung up before he had a chance to turn me down.

He doesn't mind age differences.

[nie_unschuldig]

[Oh that Fujimiya logic.]

That was rather [dumb] silly wasn't it?

[stillneedsakiss]

I don't think so. It's better to not place him in a position that he has to say such a thing to my face. This way, he knows and if he doesn't want to pursue it further, it never has to come up again.

[nie_unschuldig]

And if he takes your actions to mean you aren't really interested but are just playing around?

[stillneedsakiss]

I don't think he'll do that.

[nie_unschuldig]

You never know. While he might not have an issue with age differences in others, he might just see your actions as proof to think otherwise in regards to himself.

[stillneedsakiss]

He won't mistake it. Without context, I can understand the idea seeming a possibility. But he isn't like that. His personality, and the tone of the conversation... I'm sure he knows.

[nie_unschuldig]

Then why did you hang up? You're afraid of something.

[stillneedsakiss]

Losing face. Maintaining the conversation would force him to answer, and the answer could be that he isn't interested without any of those other issues being a concern. It would have been uncomfortable for both of us in that case. It's a bad position.

[nie_unschuldig]

[This is one of the benefits of being a telepath, he already knows how everyone feels about him without worrying.]

You're not sure how he feels about you, you just were using the age thing to test the waters.

[stillneedsakiss]

...In a sense. If I was too young for him there would be no point in even venturing as far as I did, would there?

[nie_unschuldig]

Oh, there is always a point.

[stillneedsakiss]

Like what, in that case?