*hugs* Hmm, whenever I find something negative like that about myself, I kinda chalk one up for me, because if they were trying to talk behind my back, well, I totally caught 'em. LOL. Not much you can do to stop people talking, though. Everyone's got an opinion. And as far as warning go, you'd be surprised how many people read stuff with warnings on for things they don't like just so they can complain about its existence. Again, nothing you can do except say, "Well, I told you that was there." *smoosh*
yeah, I know. I suppose I just hate being reminded of the more repulsive elements of human nature.
*shrugs*
It's cool I have broad shoulders and have had people that matter more to me say more hurtful things. I just take it as a reminder to remember the old saying 'if you don't have anything nice or constructive to say than shut your mouth.' Well at least that's the version we used in my house growing up! LOL!
Thanks Val, I love you too hon. I'm good now. I just got pissed when I stumbled over another anon post listing how they had a lj note for my username as batshit insane for the 2nd time in a month and probably over acted a bit!
I know I'm more than that and that I have people on lj who take me for who I am not what I have written, so it's all good. It's the good people on lj that keep me here and coming back for more. That and Jensen/Dean of course! LOL!
It always is a ball ache when some random fucktard makes a comment, but to do it without having the courage to put your name to it?? Yeah ASSHOLES, and big shitty ones at that!!! It knocks my confidence big time when someone does that to me, don't let the fuckers get you down dude. You write for one person, and one person only...YOU. Okay so you put your stuff out there for people to read, but does that give some lurker the right to blast what you have taken the time to write...NO...so ignore the fuckers, flip them the proverbial bird and in true Dean Winchester style tell um to go fuck themselves!!!
Thanks. Yeah, that's pretty much where I am with it all. I've got broad shoulders and hell if that's the worst they can come up with then I'm doing pretty well I suppose, I seen much worse.
At the end of the day I still love this fandom for the fact that it is so diverse and has some really awesome people in it. That and the fact that it's all about 2 gorgeous guys that take the fuglies names and kick their asses (and at times get their own kick so beautifully!). Yeah, I can definitely stick around for that! ;P
Oh, hon! I am so sorry you've copped crap from one of those anon sites. They're toxic, revolting places, and people who go there and post on them are really saying far, far more about themselves than about whoever they happen to be targeting.
It's difficult not to look when you know something';s been posted about you, and even more difficult to ignore it. But now that you have, justly, let fly with some of the hurt, try and step away from it, realise they're very un-evolved, very sad little people, and put them behind you.
I've let it go now! I knew even at the time that it was stupid to let something like that effect me but it caught me at a vulnerable moment and hence the vent!
I'm all good now. At the end of the day I know who I am and have many people who value me for that so these petty minded comments mean absolutely nothing in the scheme of things.
Thanks for the support hon, it's much appreciated!
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yeah, I know. I suppose I just hate being reminded of the more repulsive elements of human nature.
*shrugs*
It's cool I have broad shoulders and have had people that matter more to me say more hurtful things. I just take it as a reminder to remember the old saying 'if you don't have anything nice or constructive to say than shut your mouth.' Well at least that's the version we used in my house growing up! LOL!
*hugs*
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Thanks Val, I love you too hon. I'm good now. I just got pissed when I stumbled over another anon post listing how they had a lj note for my username as batshit insane for the 2nd time in a month and probably over acted a bit!
I know I'm more than that and that I have people on lj who take me for who I am not what I have written, so it's all good. It's the good people on lj that keep me here and coming back for more. That and Jensen/Dean of course! LOL!
*Smishes you*
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At the end of the day I still love this fandom for the fact that it is so diverse and has some really awesome people in it. That and the fact that it's all about 2 gorgeous guys that take the fuglies names and kick their asses (and at times get their own kick so beautifully!). Yeah, I can definitely stick around for that! ;P
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It's difficult not to look when you know something';s been posted about you, and even more difficult to ignore it. But now that you have, justly, let fly with some of the hurt, try and step away from it, realise they're very un-evolved, very sad little people, and put them behind you.
(((hugs)))
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I've let it go now! I knew even at the time that it was stupid to let something like that effect me but it caught me at a vulnerable moment and hence the vent!
I'm all good now. At the end of the day I know who I am and have many people who value me for that so these petty minded comments mean absolutely nothing in the scheme of things.
Thanks for the support hon, it's much appreciated!
*Hugs you back*
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