Why do I have to keep doing this.

Dec 19, 2008 11:09

Seriously.
I get so many msgs asking WHY OH WHY didnt I get accepted?
read the rules on the info page

If your profile does not obviously state you are a girl you will not be approved ( Read more... )

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dudeimstuckhere December 19 2008, 17:37:26 UTC
Well, I'm sorry for messaging you, but it has your link on the profile page that says to message you if there are any questions. And at least we didn't spam your journal like you asked us not to!

I wasn't sure if you were aware of the countless girls getting turned away when they are clearly stoner-status.

I also wasn't sure why I kept getting turned away when it CLEARLY states in my profile that I'm a girl, I have pictures of weed in my profile, taken by myself, and I am buddies with more than a few people in your community!

I didn't think it was very fair to be declined - especially MORE than twice, for not having a separate link to my Myspace. Myspace and Facebook are for IRL friends. LJ is for LJ friends. Sorry!

And you know what? I don't want to be a part of such a cliquey community. I thought it'd be cool to share smoking pictures with some like-minded people, but you're obviously really just a snob!

Sorry, but I'm sure you're missing out on a lot of cool chicks just because you're afraid people are "dirty old men."

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smile_wide December 19 2008, 18:22:43 UTC
oh jeez, give her a break. we're not cliquey at all, and she is not a snob!

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mewsicfreak December 20 2008, 03:42:43 UTC
Yeah we pretty much rock...we're here for each other and talk regularly...
She's just trying to be careful, as would any of the rest of us...

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theladyfeylene May 13 2009, 23:28:39 UTC
Seriously, since when is a giant community a 'clique'?

I consider this a 'safe place' inasmuch as it's all women, I can talk about certain things without fear of harassment, sexual comments, or even just a perception of being judged by a guy.

Wanting to keep out the potential perverts and stalkers? A very, very good idea.

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moranga December 19 2008, 19:17:58 UTC
I personally appreciate the work that goes in to screening people for this community.
Let's face it, what we're doing is illegal (as much as we wish it wasn't). I like knowing that this is a safe place to post about weed and not feel like we
are going to be snitched on or told how we're ruining our lives.

So, thanks!

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youtalkalotofsh December 19 2008, 21:13:55 UTC
x2

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patreeka December 19 2008, 23:09:15 UTC
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mewsicfreak December 20 2008, 03:43:33 UTC
Also a great point :-)

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kappyjeanne December 19 2008, 20:53:50 UTC
THANK YOU for being a good mod! I get fairly worried knowing that our pictures are all up, we have enough members as is but I'm relieved knowing you've declined members!

Looks like the user in question (or the one that replied to this post) is just being a sore thumb. Don't stress it, you're doing a great job :3
(Why would we want someone like that in here, anyways?)

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imrealgangster December 19 2008, 21:03:31 UTC
Yay mods! I do remember a while ago a dude DID sneak in here and he added me and it creeped me out he would NOT GO AWAY!

And Im amazed you added me, since then my journal was all new and friends only, so you couldnt see any entries... and I hadnt added any links.. I COULD BE A MAN OMG! lol.

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imrealgangster December 20 2008, 01:24:30 UTC
im barely on anymore. life is tough right now. plus someone broke into my account a few weeks ago and deleted hella shit. so maybe you got deleted. :/ sry. been going through more bullshit than i need right now.

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anti_beautiful December 19 2008, 21:27:15 UTC
The fact that theres an in-depth screening process proves that the mods are truly active and actually give a shit about who is viewing our pictures... a while back I got an IM from some guy saying he "saw" my pics on stoner_girls (I think i accidently forgot to private it or something) and he was really weird so I had to block him

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