Comments | stormcrow216: "Baby there's something wrong with me..."

stormcrow216

"Baby there's something wrong with me..."

Jan 22, 2010 11:11

I'm having a harder and harder time motivating myself to engage in the business of life. I'm just kind of disenchanted it seems, and I'm having a hard time enjoying myself. I'm not really sure what the issue is, or if it's anything I should be worried about or not. It's not that I can't be distracted, it's more that... that's all anything feels ( Read more... )

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bleuberi21 January 22 2010, 17:18:18 UTC

*hug* Yes, talk to her about it. Getting stuff out in the open is always better than holding it in.

And I'm here if you need a ventee. =0)

magdaleneseal January 22 2010, 17:32:00 UTC

You and I talked briefly about this last week, and you know some of my thoughts on this. You set your own time line here, honey. There is no rush to do anything you do not want to do. Certainly, there are big changes coming up for you in the upcoming months. Life changing ones. Take it a step at a time, focus on what you can control - like moving in May. The job will pan out as it should.

You make your own happiness and your own circumstances. Talk to K if you have some apprehension about moving in together..she may have the same concerns you do. Change is good (Remember you tell me this on a regular basis?.lol) You are moving forward, not back. The amount of shift going on for you is a lot to deal with. But, knowing you, I have every confidence you will make the right choices that are best for you and your future.

Just wanted you to know I support you in whatever you need and here if you need an ear.. *hugs*

onlyinthislight January 22 2010, 21:45:57 UTC

Was going to say something, but magdaleneseal said it better than I every could have. Smart friend you have there.

How does it go? High goals attract good company.

THIS IS MY FRIENDSHIP AVATAR. ITS SAYS, EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A ROUGH TIME AND I MAY NOT ALWAYS UNDERSTAND, I WILL TRY MY BEST TO BE THERE FOR YOU. PLEASE DO NOT SLICE OFF MY HAIR.<3

pms_inc January 23 2010, 06:16:04 UTC

ok. I get what you are saying and I'm sorry you're troubled- let me point that out right away. You have been one of my more delightful friends and are very dear to me.

So I'll lend you my secret. What helped me was realizing a couple years ago that I'm a collector of experiences- both good and bad because there is not other choice. The more experiences I collect, the better rounded I consider my life. My most recent/current life experience, although a seeming failure, has actually moved me toward the next set of experiences for my collection. If you can view your current life as portion of your collection, perhaps it will help? Life is practice- we never get it exactly right- but we keep practicing. :)

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satyreyes January 24 2010, 00:09:45 UTC

No wonder you feel unmotivated -- you're at a multidimensional crossroads and you can only see about two feet down each path! I'd feel unmotivated too. It's times like that I feel like I need to hop a train, going in some direction that is hopefully positive, and stay on the fucking train until the next station. So what direction do you want to go? :)