Love at first sight? BULLSHIT!
I've been thinking about this a lil' bit. What exactly is love at first sight, has anyone you know fell in love at first sight and had a long life together (your parents, your friends parents etc.). There IS no such thing as love at first sight, its LUST at first sight thats all it is, just hormones of people wanting to get it on cause the other person is hot. Have you ever notice that no one actually falls in 'love at first sight' with a nice guy? or a non-built guy?
Thats why i think any kind of good strong solid relationship can only come from it being first friends, and then more. If you are friends with the guy/gal first, then you know you can at least stand them somewhat - from there you can build a relationship, sure meetings happen and they can ask someone and stuff but its not love at first sight, you see someone visually appealing to you, and you find out if its mentally soothing as well (or just physicly for 1 night stands or CRAP like that)
So yeah, that's pretty much why i think guy and girl should first be friends or at least not go and have sex on 1st, 2nd or 5th date - get to know each other, ok i'm done -no particular reason for this.