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[strawberryoxyge]

how could a person cheat on someone , let alone someone that loves them dearly? I can understand not desiring them anymore , or craving some new excitement, but then why not let them go before you hurt them. Tell them the truth and let the healing begin

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[wang1961]

people cheat for many different, complicated reasons

mostly, I think they cheat because they feel unloved or unloveable

they aren't trying to be hurtful, though they often are.

it's a compulsion.

[arian_diana]

Or maybe they want to hurt or cheat on the person their with first before that person can cheat on them. They're so sure someone will do it to them that they feel they need to do it first in order to avoid the hurt.

I completely agree with your first line. I think there are a multitude of complicated reasons why people cheat. I'd love to have someone who loved me unconditionally just as I would be willing to love that person, but I think that's a very unrealistic wish.

I don't understand why love has to be so complicated. I don't for one minute believe that it should have to be so we appreciate it more. But such is life, I guess.

[strawberryoxyge]

i wish it wasnt a dream i understand you cant love someone the exact amount they love you but why is it wrong to want a pure relationship

[arian_diana]

I don't think it's wrong to want a pure relationship. I just think they're few and far between anymore, and I hate that. Too many people have been burned and heard too many horror stories, and I think that makes people automatically put their guard up. I know I'm scared to death to go into a relationship as much as I'd love to be in a good one. I don't want to start something and then realize that I just can't do it. I don't want to be worried about whether or not I can trust the guy all of the time.
I really really wish that the whole Prince Charming coming along and sweeping me off my feet was a reality. Just knowing that I've found the right guy for me would be a lot easier even if we would still need to work on our relationship as the years go by.

Am I even making sense? It's all confused in my head. That's why I am not actively seeking someone out. If I can't figure out what it is I want, how am I supposed to work on maintaining a relationship?

[omfgitscandy]

:[ its candice add this name i dont use sublimecutie anymore

[strawberryoxyge]

k

[shaido]

Some people have no concern at all for the people they are with. They just want fun and don't give a shit