ok so i finally went and read the other entry - i'm slow. when i was trying to meet people online i had a lot of that too, and trust me, you are NOT alone in feeling uncomfortable and offended. Mike was one of the first guys i met who didn't try to 'win' me over with dirty talk and rude prying questions. I have a friend, Jen clarrisa who also shares the more..umm..'interesting' notes from guys she hears from. i just don't understand why people think that's a way to get someone's interest. I can understand asking that shit after some meetings or having gotten to know someone better, but the first thing you ask? it's just rude! the last 'sate' i went on before i met Mike was with someone who was kind of like that and when i ended up meeting him he kept trying to get me to go to his place so he could spank me and lick my feet. sorry, buddy. you have to have dated me a while to get THAT privilege.
Here's todays: "Have you ever been with a girl or thought about being with a girl?"
My response if I were you: "Yes.. i love girls!! I actually am attracted to more afeminate(sp) men in fact. Have you ever thought of role reversal in bed?"
Careful you don't get whiplash as you watch them run the other way like little bizatchs!! :)
As a girl online, you have the ultimate in ability to totally control the conversation and mood of a chat..
Honestly, is stressing over this making you feel any better?
Ok seriously.... this is her live journal. Her place to vent, to rage, to scream if she so chose.
This isn't the "real" world with her having a raving fit in front of everyone. And even if it were, she has the right to talk about her problems freely.
A girl needs to be able to complain to her friends, and they nod, tell her they understand, or say nothing at all. Not to judge her. She is not asking us to solve her problems.
Calling it "stressing," or "freaking out," or reproaching it in any way doesn't make anyone feel better. It makes them feel like no one understands and they can't even vent.
Meri is not asking us to solve her problems... she's just asking us to listen, to read, to understand that she has these feelings and she just needs to talk about them. Only by acknowledging things can one be free to release them and let them go. But when anger strikes, or frustration, denying those emotions make them fester, turn inward, and then become poisonous.
If I were dealing with this on a regular basis, when I paid money to be
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what the fuck?!?!
fucking cockasses.
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when i was trying to meet people online i had a lot of that too, and
trust me, you are NOT alone in feeling uncomfortable and offended.
Mike was one of the first guys i met who didn't try to 'win' me over with dirty talk and rude prying questions. I have a friend, Jen clarrisa who also shares the more..umm..'interesting' notes from guys she hears from.
i just don't understand why people think that's a way to get someone's interest. I can understand asking that shit after some meetings or having gotten to know someone better, but the first thing you ask? it's just rude!
the last 'sate' i went on before i met Mike was with someone who was kind of like that and when i ended up meeting him he kept trying to get me to go to his place so he could spank me and lick my feet. sorry, buddy. you have to have dated me a while to get THAT privilege.
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My response if I were you: "Yes.. i love girls!! I actually am attracted to more afeminate(sp) men in fact. Have you ever thought of role reversal in bed?"
Careful you don't get whiplash as you watch them run the other way like little bizatchs!! :)
As a girl online, you have the ultimate in ability to totally control the conversation and mood of a chat..
Honestly, is stressing over this making you feel any better?
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tell them that you are into sissification. see how they like that!
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But being told that I'm overreacting isn't.
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This isn't the "real" world with her having a raving fit in front of everyone. And even if it were, she has the right to talk about her problems freely.
A girl needs to be able to complain to her friends, and they nod, tell her they understand, or say nothing at all. Not to judge her. She is not asking us to solve her problems.
Calling it "stressing," or "freaking out," or reproaching it in any way doesn't make anyone feel better. It makes them feel like no one understands and they can't even vent.
Meri is not asking us to solve her problems... she's just asking us to listen, to read, to understand that she has these feelings and she just needs to talk about them. Only by acknowledging things can one be free to release them and let them go. But when anger strikes, or frustration, denying those emotions make them fester, turn inward, and then become poisonous.
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