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[striving]

Hmm. Maybe I need an opinion from someone outside myself

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[opal581]

A couple of tiny little things and then I will go do homework that I've been needing to do. Yes, schedules means schedules as I have volunteered for Chicago run crew. And, yes, my lamps travel with me. And I get ticked at you, too, even though I'm not good at articulating it calmly to you. Sorry I could not tell you what was wrong yesterday -you couldn't tell me what I wanted to hear and your tone of voice was not helping at all (and that was all my stuff, not any of this).

[flamesea]

Eliana, first off, thank you for expressing your being pissed at Julia to someone besides me and Troy. Julia, doesn't it occur to you that there might be a reason BOTH OF US HAVEN'T been in the house much lately

[striving]

In the closet. It was always intended to be a space for ANYONE who needed it, not just you, and YOU NEVER SAID OTHERWISE. I did not do anything on your side of the bed, which is the only thing you've said not to do, and there was nothing on the surface that had particular value to you as far as I know

[dragontse]

Sometimes if one is too upset or pissed off to talk calmly and rationally, it's not good to discuss a situation. (BTW, I'm a friend of Flamesea) As annoying or painful it is to have to wait, it's 1. Better to know someone is pissed at you, even if you don't know what about yet, knowing allows it to be brought up when both parties are in a more calm and suitable frame of mind in order to make progress on a given situation. Patience on one or the others behalf is important in such a case. 2. Knowing there's an issue gives you time to prepare yourself to hear what you probably don't want to hear, and be able to deal with whatever the issue is when it comes out in the open a lot more calmly.

Seeing the replies to this from both the other parties however, my comentary is probably a little late, but I hope you all can calm down and have a discussion and remain friends.