Comments | stuart_knight: lost control again

stuart_knight

lost control again

May 16, 2005 14:02

I am looking for work every morning. Checking up on old applications and talking to managers. I can only hit so many each morning. I WAS planning on looking for new places to apply today, only mom and dad started bothering me to do just that before i could do it myself, so now i cant do it at all. and yes, i know that is retarted. believe me ( Read more... )

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Just my ramblings... ariaa May 16 2005, 14:58:19 UTC

It’s like reading my own thoughts from years ago… I have to say it is retarded that you can’t do what you had planned to do today because the parents brought up the whole subject and were focusing on it, and telling you what to do… but… I know the feeling… making a point… being stubborn ;) sounds so familiar. I wouldn’t have done it either ( ... )

Re: Just my ramblings... natetheoriginal May 17 2005, 07:05:14 UTC

Maybe, people need to learn to get over their guilt and instead of forcing their values down upon there children they should show them how important, compassion and tolerance is by just being loving supportive parents without being so fucking overbearing…

I don’t know though, I could be wrong.

Re: Just my ramblings... ariaa May 17 2005, 10:23:30 UTC

Wow... I'd apologize for offending you or whatever... but fuck that, I just found my fucking voice! So, Nathan, whatever... maybe I was just raised differently. I don't feel the need to lash out when my parents do something to piss me off. The fucking truth?? I went to school. I got a job. I moved out. I pay rent and bills, and don't borrow money from mom and dad. It's called responsibility. When you have it... when a person starts acting like a fucking adult, maybe then they are treated more like an adult than a child that throws a fucking fit.

You wanted me to find me voice? I found it.

I was being Stuart's cousin. I'm family. He doesn't have to listen but dammit I care, and I am allowed to give him advice, he doesn't have to take it or listen to me, but fuck you for thinking you could step in and insult me and my advice like that.

Re: Just my ramblings... ariaa May 17 2005, 12:15:53 UTC

That reply was not who I want to be… angry, pissed, annoyed…

I still feel the same way… that won’t change, but I suppose I should apologize for going off on you Nathan. Agree to disagree… I’m not going to change your mind, and you can’t change mine…

I was being delicate and thoughtful as it is… no one wants to know how I really feel about the whole situation anyway…

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zerocoolphreak May 16 2005, 22:13:50 UTC

Oh man, I have been down that road so many times... my mom frustrates me so much that I just scream and tear my room up every now and then. It was much worse when I was still in high school, though. And the whole not wanting to go and do something now that the parents have bitched at you to go do it... I am just like that. As long as my mom doesn't tell me to do something a bunch of times, I have no problem doing it, but as soon as she gets on my case about it, there's no chance of it happening. I think in the back of my mind, it's all just to spite her. The part that really sucks, is that she has never learned how to handle me and probably never will.

natetheoriginal May 17 2005, 06:58:25 UTC

I actually don't think you reacted that abnormally. It sounds like it was just the result of having shit build up and build up until you had to explode, because you don't know how to retaliate when your parents are tarring you down, criticizing you, and being selfish ( ... )