Sweetie I was in a funk last week and no puter time, but I have to tell ya readng this made me happy for you and him.
Yes the dynamic is going to change but also there is going to be more closeness. There will be periods of adjustment, but then there will be periods when yolu are both quietly just being with each other and have your own routines, rituals and quirks.
There is so much that you can do now to make his life easier and enjoyable. Don't be surprised if you catch him just looking at you doing the most mundane things...they will be brand new to him, even if you have slept over countless times.
Jim has made little rituals for bedtime and morning wkae ups...It's the times thta I feel the most ~little~, it endears me to him every single time. Then there are things that I do for him, iwthout asking because I noticed and wanted to please him. Just rememeber the adjustment period.
I'm here if you ever need a ear. ;-) ME and Jim are very happy for you both.
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Yes the dynamic is going to change but also there is going to be more closeness. There will be periods of adjustment, but then there will be periods when yolu are both quietly just being with each other and have your own routines, rituals and quirks.
There is so much that you can do now to make his life easier and enjoyable. Don't be surprised if you catch him just looking at you doing the most mundane things...they will be brand new to him, even if you have slept over countless times.
Jim has made little rituals for bedtime and morning wkae ups...It's the times thta I feel the most ~little~, it endears me to him every single time. Then there are things that I do for him, iwthout asking because I noticed and wanted to please him. Just rememeber the adjustment period.
I'm here if you ever need a ear. ;-) ME and Jim are very happy for you both.
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