hopefully there is love, because if there isnt, i have no hope. thats all i want is to love and be loved in return. but its always with a compramise to what u want. thanks for talking though PJ <3
the only line i stole in that is love and be loved in return, and i stole it from Moulin Roughe, but at least i rephrased it. and believe me, u dont want me to give. cause i dont give good. hehehehe thanks though, i got scared that someone hated me on lj that i didnt even know PJ
since you asked...consumerwh0rSeptember 2 2004, 17:59:30 UTC
the problem is that people assume being "in love" with someone means depending on ONLY that person to fullfill ALL your needs...when we original "fall" we are intrigued with a certain aspect of a personality...we romanitcize it...convince ourselves that the person behind it must be completely original and unique in order to have this one characteristic....and then we discover that they are human...and not only human..but have faults...and some of the faults begin to look VERY similiar...so then we start projecting ourselves onto that person...and if we have come to hate ourselves then we learn to hate that person.....and when we no longer know who to blame for this...we just shrug our shoulders and assume that it is all the other person's fault for not having been the superhero we envisioned
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Re: since you asked...grrlboiwunderSeptember 2 2004, 20:52:35 UTC
rule number one about love you have to have a strong sense of your indidviduality. it is not about be coming one with someone. it is about becoming 2 better people, seperate and unqiue and enjoy in each others company. the relationship is a fine balance and every one knows all the other shit. all love is a a blancing act. and when you can distribute the weight it works.
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