My son's break up

[suemc]

Well I've not done a very good job of writing in this so far, but something happened last night, that I felt the need to share. My son has been going out with the same girl now for a number of years. He fell in love with her at school and they started dating at 16. They stayed together through all their exams and even through college. To begin with

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[snailbones]

That is so sad.

Terribly hard for you too - probably not much you can do except be there for him, which is so frustrating when you want to put on your Super Mom tights, fly into action and fix everything.

Hope things get better for both of you soon. ::Hugs::

[suemc]

Never did fit into tights very well, thanks for the hug, there was a lot of that happening this weekend

[dimity_blue]

:o( I know it's hard for you, as you do want to rush in to salvage the situation and make everything okay (especially as it's almost Christmas). And I know it's hard for him too - whatever happened between them, losing a long-term relationship is painful.

However, he has you on his side. And I'm sure that when he needs to talk about it, you'll be there for him.

And we'll be here to listen when you need to talk about it. ::hugs::

[suemc]

Did a lot of talking this weekend as well, by Sunday, he almost half smiled at something,so fingers crossed

[annieb1955]

I feel for both of you. The same thing happened to my son when he was 19. What I can tell that may help is that he now has another lovely girlfriend and is very happy with her. He's now 27. All you can do is be there if and when he wants to talk.

[suemc]

My son is 19 as well, he is still so much in love with this girl, but he is a sensible lad, I can only keep my fingers crossed that he is as luck as your son