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[sugarcreamcandy]

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Ooo0oooo... I found my new favourite community.
Lolita Housewives
Up until i met jon i just wanted to live in a hole in the city and hide and paint and make things and just be like.. a total shrew and what have you.
But after meeting him i have this insane urge to get married, have children and stay home and clean and bake pies, and care for our

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[duplica_chan]

the last time i often think of becoming a housewife, but this isn't possible anyway :(

[sugarcreamcandy]

why isnt it possible?

[duplica_chan]

because double incom is very important nowadays. i also don't want to disappoint my parents who think i will wearn more money then them, since I'm studying at university right now

[frillywitch]

Whatever makes you happy- the feminist movement was about giving you the right to choose what kind of life you want to lead.
(Just as long as you don't start believing that women-are-inferior bullshit, and always keep a separate savings account for yourself ;-))

[sugarcreamcandy]

I was mostly talking about the wierd psycho feminists who think all men are dogs and women are superier :P. lol. But yea you are right.
No, im totally one of those people who doesnt even think you should be in a relationship until youre comfortable and ok on your own.And we keep our paycheck seperate and pay for different things, cause jon makes more. I watched his parents do that it was awful. His mom just hands over her check to his dad and then he makes poor financial decisions with it and she never has money. D: yuck.

[swdpunk]

That's not disgusting at all! As long as that's what you want, you should go for it and feel empowered!

[sugarcreamcandy]

Thanks! that totally made me feel better♥
I grew up in a family of all girls and all of them are really boyish and anti-men so they always make me feel week even unitentially for wanting something like this.

[swdpunk]

They should respect you for being strong enough to do what you want in life. Most people can't even do that!

[royalscandal]

as long as you do what you enjoy, it's all good :D !
i really want to get married to haha. i daydream of the married life sometimes lol

[sugarcreamcandy]

lol so do I, I dont know why everyone bashes on it so much.
It just sounds so amazing, even though i dont want to get married until im 21 and im but 19, i always feel like just getting married now XD