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sugarfetish

sam & max hit the road

Jan 16, 2005 23:12

i think i may have overestimated my ability to be single. am going to miss him like crazy. hadn't really cried about it until tonight, because i didn't let myself dwell on the thought too much. but today he phoned me and we spoke for about two hours. totally killed me really. i'm getting so angry with myself for sitting and crying about it. ( Read more... )

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wildflower_ January 17 2005, 03:51:03 UTC

when me and chris broke up, i knew the best thing was for me not to have contact with him at all. i knew it would kill me, but it really did help. i dont know why i decided to do that, cos its not like me. normally, i'd probably have tried to stay friends & keep in contact. but the breakup was really hard on me. i was crying everyday for over a month before we split up. so i knew being in touch with him post-breakup would only make it harder. how could i get over him, if it was hurting me BEFORE we broke up? the first few days were complete hell. i couldnt eat or sleep and the pain in my chest was physically hurting me. it hurt to move. anyway, my point is, i cut off all contact with him. for 3 months straight. and when i finally did talk to him again, it didnt hurt as much. and its really surprising how well i managed to deal with it. i dont think i couldnt have done it without my friends though. dont ever forget your friends jenny. they are a miracle. hope you'll be ok. take care xx

wildflower_ January 17 2005, 03:53:26 UTC

oh another thing i forgot to put. its far too hard to get over someone if they're constantly in your face. it just makes the process 700x harder. i know its not what you want to do, but cutting off contact for a while might be the best thing, if you want to have any sort of friendship/relationship later on. xx

sugarfetish January 17 2005, 16:51:31 UTC

cheers for that. i value your advice more than most people's because i know how close you & chris were & stuff, and you two broke up & you're still alive & getting on with your life.
i definetley agree with the not keeping in touch thing. i don't really need to be reminded of him in any way.
cheers. take care x