I remember being there. Very vividly. Sometimes I still feel as though I'm there. And it's hard. And it sucks. And my heart really goes out to you.
No one deserves to feel that way. No one. Perhaps this is awkward saying and I apologize if it is: but even though you hurt me like that, I never, ever have ever wished this pain on you. I've wanted nothing more than for you to be happy.
And trying to force the feelings, I have found, drives the other away even more. Give it time. Perhaps he'll come around and see that your feelings just don't change overnight and what you had was special. And maybe he won't. But whatever the result, it means that it was meant to be. What is supposed to happen, will happen. Never forget how wonderful you really are and never forget how special you are.
Perhaps it's awkward for an ex to say this to you, but I think of myself more as a friend anymore and I'm lending my advice. You, just like I, will find that person we were meant to be with.
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Also, how is that movie? Elizabethtown? I've heard mixed things but never seen the movie.
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No one deserves to feel that way. No one. Perhaps this is awkward saying and I apologize if it is: but even though you hurt me like that, I never, ever have ever wished this pain on you. I've wanted nothing more than for you to be happy.
And trying to force the feelings, I have found, drives the other away even more. Give it time. Perhaps he'll come around and see that your feelings just don't change overnight and what you had was special. And maybe he won't. But whatever the result, it means that it was meant to be. What is supposed to happen, will happen. Never forget how wonderful you really are and never forget how special you are.
Perhaps it's awkward for an ex to say this to you, but I think of myself more as a friend anymore and I'm lending my advice. You, just like I, will find that person we were meant to be with.
And that will make it all worth it.
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