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Just a thought but- ever think that perhaps we feel things BECAUSE of the reaction it generate? Ok so obviously i get clingy when I'm dominated and I was thinking about it. When I get a little scared I get very affectionate which seems an unnatural idea but consider this for a moment. What happens biologically when you are frightened? Heart beats ( Read more... )
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It's like that relationship theory that I can't ever remember the name of, where the feeling of being out of control is very similar to feeling in love, so when you're the partner in a relationship who doesn't have control, you feel desperately in love, and if you're the partner who is in control you become steadily less interested.
The point in the end though is that even though it feels like love, it isn't love.
And if we treat that false love feeling like it is love, then usually it has bad consequences.
If we find real love, I personally find it feels even better AND it doesn'y have bad consequences nearly as often.
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