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[superbigrobot]

It's been a while so here's my all purpose post.

The students are back. Yes, yes they are.  For those that don't know I work a university help desk and i feel not unlike this guy right here http://www.superdairyboy.com/pictures/rocket_usa/Bozobopbig.jpg

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Comments

[mary_mayhem]

I am sympathetic to your annoyance.

I had a new honey in bed and giggled during sex. I think sex is fun. I think it is playful. Sometimes I laugh with delight or at the general fun of what is going on.

He said, with NO laughter in his voice, and a little sternly."What's funny?"

And I thought, "BOY, *I* have made a mistake."

So, new rule for relationships was created. Fun-Sucking PoopyHeads need not apply.

It was kind of nice of them to let you know up front that they were NOT going to be fun, though.

Sadly, though, in any group, there is always going to be some dingbat who has to decide that whatever it is is Serious Business. Even grown ups watching cartoons, ironic art or splashing around in a swimming pool. It seems to be the nature of Humanity that if there is fun, there will be a Fun-Sucking PoopyHead nearby.

[justanyolname]

I'm with y'all. If I laugh it is always a Good Thing. Sex is fun and laughing is fun and the two together are twice the fun.

[ymasen]

Indeed. I've had full gigglefits that required a pause in "activity" while I get control over the laughter.

Life is better when you don't take it too seriously.

Plus, sex is supposed to be FUN.

[marq]

Fun-Sucking PoopyHeads need not apply.

Dude.

I feel a mantra coming on!

[ymasen]

I know my level of kink is pretty tame compared to others. But when comparing me to another group, I'm way down the rabbit hole.

It's all about personal preference. Plus, soem of the "totally serious and stern, 24/7" things make me think "someoen neesd therapy" more than me thinking I'm not kinky enough. *shrug*

[satyrgrl]

Do the angry old people who can't have fun with their kink realize that they are an incredibly effective ward against young hot people who might otherwise want (or at least deign) to fuck them? 'Cause really, there is nothing less sexy than an angry old person who demands that everyone around her have the same self-important level of intensity and seriousness. Plus, the event is called Frolicon. Are these people unfamiliar with the definition of "frolic"? I'm pretty sure "Whee!" is somewhere in that definition.
As you can tell, people who want to treat their subculture like some exclusive secret society are a pet peeve of mine.

[magicgenee]

oooooh he likes the KINK, gotta have the KINK

[jasminikofsky]

I want a flogger. I've never used one.

disclaimer

[jasminikofsky]

yes i'm familiar with them and how they're used -- i've just never gotten around to it.