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[superfarmertan]

Friendship is a odd thing. We say that we are friends when we are not. How can you be friends you hardly talk to? Is 5 mins every month or so enough to keep a friendship afloat? When does a Friendship become an acquaintance? Should you be forgiving of a friend that is to busy for you? And does the statement "to busy" really mean I don't like

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[curleeqz28]

You complain about people on livejournal way too much. Just talk to them and ask them what's up.

[superfarmertan]

The thing is its not one person its just a feeling. And how i see things. Messed up as it is.

Friends should be friends even after long absences...

[westcoastchica]

Well... sometimes it's hard to keep in touch. The nature of everyone's situation now a days makes it difficult because everyone lives SO far away. It's ridiculous. However, that doesn't mean that people don't care/aren't friends. It just means that they're busy with life: working, going to school, getting outside/exercising, etc. Anyway... that's my view anyway because I sometimes can't respond to e-mails etc. right away.

[westcoastchica]

Yeah... like Angela said... just ask them what's up

[superfarmertan]

I do and have. I just write these things because i know others feel the same as i do. Some times they post and other times they talk to me one on one. But if baring my soul can Allow me to become better friends with others then i must do it. The posts are not about people tho they may of inspired them they are about the feelings.

Re: Friends should be friends even after long absences...

[superfarmertan]

Yes they should be. But it's not the same. It's harder to get back what is lost. Than what never was. I understand being busy and i have been been guilty of it tho I guess i am idealist in the fact that i don't beleive we should never be so busy that we neglect our friends.
Because One can never have deep friendships with out working at them.