sorry, you commented on my post in accept_yourself and i was curious so i tracked you down and decided that this was a good question:
my two cents are:
You never REALLY know. You hope, you think, you're pretty certain, but you can never really know. The important thing is to have respect flowing both ways and to have very open communication. If there is trust and respect and happiness in being together, why bother worrying about if they REALLY love you or are just mildly infatuated with you? I mean, if they meet your requirements and you meet theirs, then call it love and be happy. :D
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And love isnt about sacrificing everything you have to make that one person happy, both parties need to be happy.
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my two cents are:
You never REALLY know. You hope, you think, you're pretty certain, but you can never really know. The important thing is to have respect flowing both ways and to have very open communication. If there is trust and respect and happiness in being together, why bother worrying about if they REALLY love you or are just mildly infatuated with you? I mean, if they meet your requirements and you meet theirs, then call it love and be happy. :D
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