i'm like that with marriage, too. it seemed like a good idea growing up... and when i was a teenager is was a thought... but now? i'm not that hot on a piece of paper declaring my relationship status.
If you recall a previous version of myself that was completely hung up on the marriage thing, thinking it would fill the gap left by a dysfunctional family. I think back now, and am so glad that that girl took him off my hands. I could have made a huge, expensive mistake. I could have been divorced already, and even had kids. What a mess. Having that in my past makes me really tread carefully on the whole marriage thing.
Not to mention I am not all too pleased with the fact that Mike and I could get hitched in this state, and many of my friends could not because their lovely just happens to be the same sex. And lastly yeah, I don't need this messed up system defining Mike and I's status. I hate labels enough as is, he is mine and I am his and that is that.
I'm glad you're back! btw....my computer seems to be getting bitchy-er. If you would pleaseeee look for some RAM for me? My comp specs:It's an Inspiron E1505 with the service tag: 44m5wc1
Ok, I looked up your specs online today, you have 512 mb of RAM. Which is like 1/4 of what computers typically run today. Are you running Windows Vista? Gimme a text today when you roll outta bed. I can talk to you about some pc stuff and could even work on it today if time permits.
PS Dolly time soon? This weekend? You need to meet Todd. :D
Re: Weddings and GardeningsupinternetsApril 20 2010, 12:18:36 UTC
Yeah I went to about four last year, and while I was super stoked for all my friends, I was burned out!
That is so freaking awesome! I think Mike is just mildly interested in what I am attempting to grow. Do you have any photos of what you built and have grown?
Weddings are a ton of work! And so many people to balance! I have it a little easier than most since the venue has a lot of builtin vendors: planner, officiant, florist, and caterer. Plus the reception and ceremony are at the same place.
Good luck with the gardening. I would like to grow something myself, but I'm not sure I will have the time this year.
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Not to mention I am not all too pleased with the fact that Mike and I could get hitched in this state, and many of my friends could not because their lovely just happens to be the same sex. And lastly yeah, I don't need this messed up system defining Mike and I's status. I hate labels enough as is, he is mine and I am his and that is that.
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btw....my computer seems to be getting bitchy-er. If you would pleaseeee look for some RAM for me?
My comp specs:It's an Inspiron E1505 with the service tag: 44m5wc1
I think it needs a doctor :(
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PS Dolly time soon? This weekend? You need to meet Todd. :D
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That is so freaking awesome! I think Mike is just mildly interested in what I am attempting to grow. Do you have any photos of what you built and have grown?
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Weddings are a ton of work! And so many people to balance! I have it a little easier than most since the venue has a lot of builtin vendors: planner, officiant, florist, and caterer. Plus the reception and ceremony are at the same place.
Good luck with the gardening. I would like to grow something myself, but I'm not sure I will have the time this year.
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Yeah, you were smart by making the choice you did. Much less of a headache.
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