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[suppandi]

Sometimes I sense of detachment from my friends, some of the negative thoughts come into my mind about some people, who i care about. and I think it stems from my perception that they are very selfish at times, or have atleast been so in recently. I don't like selfish people, and when your own friends are so, what do you do ? my mind and heart is a

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[anspaug4]

I know what you mean. I've made a lot of acquaintances during my time here but only a handful of them could be trusted with my innermost thoughts.

Maybe things will get easier when we're older. Young people seem to have a hard time discussing deeper issues: the future, art, science, the meaning of life, that sort of thing....

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[suppandi]

yeah , i see what you re saying. but i was referring to people who I consider very good friends of mine and vice versa. neither can I trust anyone with my innermost thoughts. I think I don't have the ability to be emotionally attached to anybody, . I feel scared of myself at times, and wonder who I am, or what do i stand for,
but anyway how was grand rapids, did u guys go dancing ?

[kumaraka]

It helps to remember that we are more like streams than rocks, constantly flowing and changing while the overall look and shape remains the same.

What I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't look to define a person as either caring or uncaring, deep or dumb, prejudiced or open minded. We should know the person for a long time, and judge what the trends are for the person. Like a scatter plot with a line of best fit, know what I mean?

If you judged me by my selfish or egocentric moments, you'd never get a chance to appreciate my finer ones. The selfish moments don't make the loving ones any less sincere.