Hahahaha)) I looove all your journal entries!)) You are so much fun!))
Well, family and genes sure do define personality and are very important, but still "everybody has a potential" to change. Look at me. I grew up in a messed up family, relationship between members of my family is completely sick. It's jut that i don't talk much about it. So, i got a very bad example of a man-woman relationship and, of course, it influenced my relationships with my ex-boyfriends. I couldn't understand what a normal relationship should be like, so I repeated a lot of mistakes members of my family did. But I was lucky enough to meet some smart guys, who pointed out my flaws and mistakes. Now that i analysed all the advises i'm trying to change. So, environment does make a difference, it might correct the flaws and turn an ignorant bastard into a nice person..))
Thank you Sashka, i like that you are very optimistic about it, makes me feel hopeful : ) On a serious note, i actually made that mistake, i thought i'll change him, i'll mold him into fine, smart guy, but it never happened. I guess i m a bad "changer" or maybe the guys i met werent so changeable : ( anyway, now i just hope to find a guy who already went through the "training" by ex gfs and i wont have to left a finger hehe, just enjoy the results hehehehehe
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I looove all your journal entries!)) You are so much fun!))
Well, family and genes sure do define personality and are very important, but still "everybody has a potential" to change.
Look at me. I grew up in a messed up family, relationship between members of my family is completely sick. It's jut that i don't talk much about it. So, i got a very bad example of a man-woman relationship and, of course, it influenced my relationships with my ex-boyfriends. I couldn't understand what a normal relationship should be like, so I repeated a lot of mistakes members of my family did. But I was lucky enough to meet some smart guys, who pointed out my flaws and mistakes. Now that i analysed all the advises i'm trying to change.
So, environment does make a difference, it might correct the flaws and turn an ignorant bastard into a nice person..))
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On a serious note, i actually made that mistake, i thought i'll change him, i'll mold him into fine, smart guy, but it never happened. I guess i m a bad "changer" or maybe the guys i met werent so changeable : ( anyway, now i just hope to find a guy who already went through the "training" by ex gfs and i wont have to left a finger hehe, just enjoy the results hehehehehe
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