You'll never be "ready"
anonymous
September 28 2005, 15:02:14 UTC
Hate to sound harsh however no one is ever totally "ready" for children in any respect... that's just an excuse.. even the most poorest of people raise decent human beings... in the end it isn't about money.. it's about your skills as a parent. Read some parenting books... Dr Phil's "Family First" comes to mind. If you want to have a child, have one. As for "blowing up" due to pregnancy, cross that bridge when you get to it... that's FEAR ("False Reality Appearing Real") holding you back. It's an excuse. If you're so concerned about your weight whilst pregnant, just up your activity level (not necessarily exercise... activity incorporates a hell of a lot more) :-)
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Best wishes none the less!
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Thanks for the comment. You're right, if we keep WAITING until we're SURE we're ready, we'll never be READY.....
And yeah about the waist fears. But if you KNEW what it took for me to lose the tonnage I had in H/S, you'd understand!
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