Moving Right Along...
So I've now been unfriended. I didn't do anything myself to really deserve it which makes it all the more strange yet hurtful. It was someone else who's big mouth and bad manners began this ending and I wish I could go back and hang up the phone or do something, anything different. In some ways a burden is lifted and in others the burden is quite
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You are not disposable.
I wouldn't worry about cyberslander, not over something like this. Whatever is or could be said by that party reflects worse upon her than anyone else, and if others choose to take a side in it, that's a friend not worth having. Invest in the ones with whom your bond only grows or keep them at a wary yet warm distance. Friends are friends when the chips are down, not just when the cards are being shuffled.
As for not choosing to make yourself available full time to those who choose to make you part time, that's logic that can't be ignored.
Vindictive behaviour is something we fear from others if it's something we feel that we're capable of. You don't need to be that person and you don't need to dread reciprocal actions if you haven't earned them. This won't make the indignity and insult hurt any less by that person removing herself from you life over something so inane and petty, but it should. You're better than that.
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