omg...i'm having issues too.... and sometimes just feel like breaking up.
I don't know if it's good to announce we should cool off... cause sometimes, I think it's just me. having a bad day/being negative. So, I ACT as if we've had the cool-down convo, Cool off on MY side....and it probably freaks him out, lol but usually fixes things.
I just don't know.....I think it's easy to say 'there's gotta be someone perfect for me out there' and then you find the guy who has the one trait this guy is missing ONLY to find a hundred other issues... it's important to figure out what you can fix/improve before letting go, is what I'm saying I guess... but on the other hand, I know where you're coming from... it get's REALLY ANNOYING when one little thing/attitude/thought ALWAYS comes through and is the underlying factor of ruining your time together.
try to take a mini break....and re-approach him/the relationship by seeing only the positives/things you missed/love.
i think it's necessary, because this time i'm not sure it's me. i think maybe it's him who needs to make the change.
and i don't care about finding the perfect someone. that's not what i'm looking for. i'm sort of okay with the notion of eternal singledom. so, if i'm going to be with someone, i feel like he at least needs to satisfy those essential needs.
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things not working out??
misery loves company.
BUT we can have costumes!!!
yes?
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and sometimes just feel like breaking up.
I don't know if it's good to announce we should cool off...
cause sometimes, I think it's just me. having a bad day/being negative.
So, I ACT as if we've had the cool-down convo,
Cool off on MY side....and it probably freaks him out, lol
but usually fixes things.
I just don't know.....I think it's easy to say
'there's gotta be someone perfect for me out there'
and then you find the guy who has the one trait this guy is missing
ONLY to find a hundred other issues...
it's important to figure out what you can fix/improve
before letting go, is what I'm saying I guess...
but on the other hand, I know where you're coming from...
it get's REALLY ANNOYING when one little thing/attitude/thought
ALWAYS comes through and is the underlying factor of ruining
your time together.
try to take a mini break....and re-approach him/the relationship
by seeing only the positives/things you missed/love.
but yeah
Dating should be easier.
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and i don't care about finding the perfect someone. that's not what i'm looking for. i'm sort of okay with the notion of eternal singledom. so, if i'm going to be with someone, i feel like he at least needs to satisfy those essential needs.
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