I wish I knew

[susitna_sol]

My boyfriend and I have spent the past two weeks in the negotiations phase. That's what I call the time where you're just not sure if you're going to commit or quit. The thing is, I want to be in a successful relationship. I really do. I want to be a wife and a mother and be something at least approaching happy

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[eyelid]

It sounds to me like he's passively trying to sabotage the relationship. I.e. trying to get you to break up with him.