Subject: Life-Long Friends? or As-Long (as it's convenient for me) Friends?

[sweeetrevvenge]

You make these pacts growing up to be blood brothers, beauty queens, next-door neighbors, have your kids grow up together, and actually mean to follow through. Being young and naive is wonderful because these pacts aren't the least bit silly, but tied together with an incredibly serious pinky swear or best friends forever chained necklace from

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[cooljets]

You seem to write posts about this subject an awful lot. I think you might need to lower your expectations of other people. If someone hasn't called you in 3 years, I'm assuming they don't really consider you that good of a friend anymore and relying upon them for support is probably a bad idea.

Subject: Kirsten, Get Over It.

[sweeetrevvenge]

Both of which have been considered and are the reasons for the "accomplished" mood. Honestly, I think it's because of my brother and my dad dying that I have a harder time letting go of people I've known for so long because I think, "well, what if they died? That would suck." You know? But duh, that's uncontrollable and I understand that people die, so whatever. But I really think that may be the thought process behind the not-so-awesome and just realizing the way things are in a relationship between myself and someone I've known forever